i have been on a date he texts me late at night and takes an
intrest in what i do but he needs to know why we are going out
to do things is this normal??? what does L ngt mean??
do you think he wants 2 be more than friends he said well go out again!!
2006-09-04 07:01:59 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys are often very clear. The trouble is if they do not know what they want in the first place.
Yes. He wants to have clear boundaries and objectives - a very guy thing - so he can measure success. Maybe he doesn't see "just hanging out" as a worthwhile activity because it is so easy to succeed in it.
L ngt probably means "last night"
I think he is interested. He will want to be more than friends if things go well again :)
2006-09-04 07:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
L ngt may mean long night. It is not clear whether or not you've had just one date with this person, or a dozen. What is a mystery to you? Women always want to see into the long term or read between the lines. Men are not that complicated. He said, "we'll go out again," right? That is what he likely means. No mystery in that. Go out with him and skip over the daydreams of the wedding gown! Let the relationship evolve into whatever it might evolve into and if that pleases you, stay with it. If not, move on. Don't be so available and act so desperate for love. If he texts you late at night and you are trying to sleep, answer him in the morning. If it takes longer than you would like to see him, ask him out. We go down in flames because we wait for the man to call all the shots and then when we catch him, we want to change him. A few months from now you'll probably ask another question about why he is so inconsiderate as to text you late at night. Figure out what you want and go for it. Don't be a whimp. Nobody likes that.
2006-09-04 14:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question would be: Why does he text you "late at night". Is this the ONLY time he texts or talks with you? This may be a sign of something! He may need to know why you two are going out because he is wondering where you two stand as far as a relationship goes and he simply can not come right out and ask you this. This could be because of his fear, insecurity, or the sad fact that society doesn't really encourage guys to just come out and be clear about what they want and need in an honest communicative way. I don't know what L ngt means, but maybe he meant LTR- which means Long Term Relationship. It would be best to just ask him to communicate honestly and openly with you and you two can talk this out. Good luck!!
2006-09-04 14:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by asylum07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect he is clear about what he wants and also that he is probably just figuring things out. By the sounds of it he wants to know if the time he is investing in being with you is worthwhile.
Have you communicated enthusiastically that you enjoyed your time together ?
Girls I think sometimes want guys to sweep them off their feet and ravish them and yet at the same time there are laws against this sort of behaviour now which guys are very aware of. So bottom line guys find it difficult to get the mix right in this Politically Correct world. You probably need to communicate to him whether you enjoy spending time with him.
As for texting you late at night there could be a number of reasons, a couple are (there are many more of course):
1. he promised to himself to text you that day and he hadn't done it yet.
2. he thought of you when he went to bed, we all (both sexes) naturally want to sleep with somebody we care about, not just for sex but for love and friendship.
Bottom line we don't know, you could always ask him in a light and cheeky sort of way, his response might give you the information you need.
2006-09-04 16:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to know why you are going out?? Maybe that means he wants to know how you feel about pursuing a long term relationship. If that's not it, then I would say this is just a casual on-the-side thing for him. Those are the only two possible explanations I can think of.
2006-09-04 14:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
L ngt = late night and you need to talk to him and tell him what you feel.
2006-09-04 14:04:30 · answer #6 · answered by Yeopilio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want a woman in her mid twenties to early thirties, not fat or anorexic, who likes adventurous pursuits in the outdoors and cosy nights cuddling in front of the telly. She's got to want me for who I am, not what she wants to mould me into. I want lots of sex. I am a good cook, and an appreciation of good food is a must. Am I making myself clear?
2006-09-04 14:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by Kango Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because what they want usually involves their penis and they can't just tell women that without getting slapped and not getting what they want. So they manipulate situations and play games. I think I wouldn't worry about it that much. Besides I don't really get your question, if he doesn't bother with you until late at night then don't bother with him at all...what do you mean why we are going out to do things? who is going out? Sounds to me like he's trying to find out if you are available for a booty call and not much more.
2006-09-04 14:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cos, unclear thinking make some suspense.
think, if a lady walk without cloths and other walk with a nice cloth which cover her attractive parts of body, who will be look beautiful?
so, men are not clear like nude lady.
am i clear my dear?
2006-09-04 15:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by asru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think guys are pretty clear in what they want...we just chose not to listen unless it's something we want to hear.
2006-09-04 14:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋