okay so i met this guy at my high school...he is my brothers friend!! and he introduced us because he liked me i guess...but i was with someone...then summer rolled around and i became available! then we started talking on the net...and we became closer and tlkd on the fone and the net...we even hung out one time...and he gave me the BIGGEST hug kissed my cheek!
im not 100% sure what this feeling is...
its like when he calls and his name pops up on my fone i began to smile and get all nervous but happy at the same time! i feel i can be who i am with him..around him its no changing from being at home and tlkn 2 him!! i can sing really baad (on purpose) and we will just laugh!!and i get really glad when i see his name on the instant messenger!! is this love? or what? kthx..
2006-09-04 06:55:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you kno regardless to what any one says i think its love.because if it excites you that much it must be.dont get me wrong it could be an infatuation but if hes your first thought in the morning and your last one at night then i think you love him and you should go for love.LOVE NEVER FAILS
2006-09-04 07:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by wanrev1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it could be that your just infatuated with the guy,a temporary crush that probably will soon pass over the next time u meet someone that your attracted to that can make u smile more often that can sweet talk you a little better and thats feelin u the way ur feelin him.now ur gonna have some disagreements and different opinions thats just being an individual,but the disagreements and trials that yaw go through could never quench the flame that brought u 2 together.when u still feel the same way about that person after 10 years of not seeing them and the feelin that theres no one else out there for u out of the billions of men that we have on this earth.....thats love.but the greatest love is to give ya life for someone like christ did for mankind on the cross,there is no greater love than that.
2006-09-04 14:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by Saleen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say it's love just yet. By the way, I "love" how suddenly with summer, you became available. It's cool when things sort of matter factly happen automatically like that as if an on switch was pressed from "unavailable" to "ceme get me!"
I think everyone needs someone to look forward to and often times, it gets mistaken as "I think I am in love." At this moment, it only means that when you are reminded of his existence, it makes you feel more alive inside.
To me that is not love, but rather, attraction. Love is a very complicated word that gets tossed around like a bastardize fish caught and tossed by ten fisherman.
Just enjoy your time with him. If it is short-lived, you'll realize that it was just a short-lived love only if 20 years from now, when you and he are long separated, you still hold a gentle candlelit memory of him in your heart tucked away from all the bills to pay, your children's bed time story books, and you husband's work conversations.
Love is silly like that. Everyone over time, hold fossils of people that they once cherished and within their imaginations, still cherish on a deeper level.
Basically the answer to your question is: in a decade, if you still reflect on him with those lively feelings that you feel today whenever you see his name pop up on your instant messenger, then, it might be love.
2006-09-04 14:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young to know what love is. In fact, most women (and even men) wouldn't have the slightest idea until they are ready to settle down. Wait until you bang all those guys in college before you ask this question.
2006-09-04 14:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by Justin G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in love. You are infatuated. It happens a lot when people are young. Enjoy it but chill out and don't make it a big deal out of it.
2006-09-04 14:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by aiji.tenchijin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's puppy love at least. That is what love feels like, but it lasts longers than usual teenage relationships. Enjoy.
2006-09-04 14:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, do you feel all nervous? do you feel that he doesn't want you to be anybody else but you? and that he thinks you're beautiful and that he never want's you to change. Also if you really love this guy you would naturally know if you're in love!
2006-09-04 14:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by ebacebedo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, sumtin like that happend to me 2 years ago with a guy i met through my friend. isn't it great? your heart jumps huh! try to spend some time with him. remember, alot of guys like it when you make the first move! ;)
2006-09-04 14:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by Hunter Jumper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infatuation...
2006-09-04 14:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by Stacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be love, but it might also be just a crush. you should take your time and really get to know this person before you really decide how you feel
2006-09-04 13:59:46 · answer #10 · answered by rlt101010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋