Is it wrong for a guy to have 2-3 gf's who dont know about each other? why?
2006-09-04 06:12:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-04 06:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong particurly if they do not know about it. What on earth do you want so many boyfriends for. It is betrayal and it can hurt their feelings so it is a selfish thing to do and you will only end up hurting yourself in the long run if you continue this behaviour as they will not want to know you if they find out and you can also get a bad reputation. i think you need to examine why you need so many boyfriends, you are valuable anyway you do not not need them to tell you. You can also catch a disease if you are having sex with them all. Have more respect for yourself and take more care.
2006-09-04 13:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never wrong to desire 3 times the pleasure. However, I'm sure one is better in the sack than the other 2 so I would pick one sooner or later and maybe just keep the other 2 on the side as spares when your main man is on vacation or can't perform.
2006-09-04 13:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah, that's wrong. My ex gf did that to me. Was playing on the side and when I found out I couldn't sleep or eat for weeks. All she had to do was be honest, but she lied and I think it was the lie that hurt the most.
2006-09-04 13:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea regardless of whether they know each other or not. Play the game and you will get played is what I've always stood by. Somebody will end up hurt and even if it's not the guy it will come back on him sooner or later. HOPEFULLY sooner than later!
2006-09-04 13:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by Emilee D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yeah i do think if you're in a relationship you should be with that person alone its very dirty and disrespectful to these women and you're crushing a lot of hearts that way, not to mention you dont know how pissed you're going to get these girls because once they found out you did this to them tried to play them like some game..some women may cry and others are going to **** your $hit up and tell all there friends how dirty and low down you are and word spreads QUICKLY
2006-09-04 13:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by desireddisease15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong!
How would you feel if you found out that the girl you like has two or three other boyfriends?
That should tell you why it's wrong.
2006-09-04 13:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by Desert Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say its OK as long as he tells the girls that he does date other women. He should not lie about it..I have dated a couple of guys at the same time,its fun really!
2006-09-04 13:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, enjoy life while you can... But be sure, not one of them will oppose the situation just in case any one of them will know about this..
And if they will oppose as you will know from them.. you can still enjoy it for as long as you can keep it a secret.
Enjoy while you can, have a good life it will not last a lifetime.
2006-09-04 13:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are single you can date all the men you want; as long as they are single. I hope you are not sleeping with them though. That would be immoral and nasty. Also, you should not be leading any of them on by claiming love or committment. Other than that, have fun!
2006-09-04 13:18:25 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋