OKAY..WELLL i'VE BEEN DATiNG THiS GUY FOR 5 MONTHS.HiM AND HiS PARENTS HAVE BEEN LiViNG WiTH ME FOR ABOUT 3 MONTHS.HE'S BEEN WORKiN AND NOT REALLY HAViN TiME FOR ME.ON HiS DAYS OFF HE'S ALWAYS OUT WiTH HiS COUSiN.WHEN WE'RE iN DA HOUSE HE'LL JUST WALK RiGHT BY ME NOT REALLY EVEN NOTiCiNG ME.I ALWAYZ HAVE TO GO UP TO HiM AND MAKE FiRST WORDS.i'VE GOTTEN HiM STUFF AND HE'S NEVER GOTTEN ME ANYTHiN.LiKE THAT REALLY MATTERS.WELL JUST RECENTLY i WENT OVER TO MY FRiENDS TO CHiLL WiT HER AND HER BOYFRiEND.WELL i MET ONE OF HiS FRiENDS AND WE STARTiNG HiTTiNG iT OF.WELL HE KNOWS THAT i HAVE A BOYFRiEND AND EVERYTHiNG.i REALLY DO LiKE HiM AND HE LiKES ME.WE'VE ONLY KNOWN EACHOTHER FOR ABOUT 2WKS.BUT FOR SOME REASON iT ONLY TOOK HiM JUST OF COUPE OF DAYS TO FiGURE AND UNDERSTAND ME.WERE iT HAS TAKEN MY BOYFRiEND ABOUT 5 MONTHS.BUT REALLY HE STILL DOESN'T UNDERSTAND ME.I REALLY DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO...i JUST REALLY NEED GOOD ADViCE CAUSE NONE OF MY FRIENDS HAVE BEEN IN THiS SITUATIONS BEFORE!
2006-09-04 05:59:35 · 15 answers · asked by La_BoRiCuA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly Hun, I had a boyfriend that was like your guy you are talking about, he needs to understand that you are not some prize. He needs to work for you, you deserve someone to be all over you, care about you, and buy you things, and yes it matters....doesn't have to be expensive, but mine wouldn't even buy me a drink when we went out. Make him chase after you! Not the other way around. Dump your current boyfriend and I would go for the guy who you like, see if he treats you any better. Your boyfriend sounds like a dick, that's bringing you down and clearly isn't making you happy, so leave him, you don't need that extra stress in your life, that's not what a boyfriend is for. Date this other guy and see how things go. Clearly you want to. Follow your heart, and all the best!
2006-09-04 06:05:01 · answer #1 · answered by Hannah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all -why are his parents living with you? Is it your home and you are responsible for the payments? Or are you both on a lease? I feel you already feel like you were taken and your not happy with the situation. Find a way out if you don't like the situation. Living with the guy would have been a step toward a relationship, yet when it came with the folks-BAD IDEA. Talk with landlord if your renting or if it's your home have a time limit to move out, Be honest with him that it's not working out.
Good luck. You seem to already know it isn't working. Forget about the relationship possibility with new guy till you get out of the old one. If he truely likes you too; he will wait.
2006-09-04 13:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by luck7l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll second what every one has allready said. Dump your current so called bf and get him and his loafing parents out of the house. Go for the man who actually gets you and be his future bride cuz it sounds like he really understands you well enough to do that for you. The current guy has to go and his parents with him. EVICT them asap.
2006-09-04 13:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the answer is obvious, you need to do what makes you happy. 5 months into a relationship is way too soon to be going through problems, it should be the honeymoon stage still. it's time for you to start kicking it with the other guy.
2006-09-04 13:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by kplayaja 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well its obvious its time to move on but the only tricky thing about your relationship is his parents being in the house that would be so awkward to be broken up and everyones there and you coldnt bring the new guy over at all...so i suggest either staying with your girlfriend or kickin them out..
2006-09-04 13:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by desireddisease15 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like ur bf has beeen neglecting u
u should talk to ur bf cuz it sounds like he wants to end ur guyses relationship
and if he does lucky for u
u can go out with the guy that actually understands u
i would personally choose to break up with ur current bf and go out iwth the guy hoo actually cares and understands u
2006-09-04 13:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by eeeeden 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh good grief.. your in a pickle. How rude of his parents to live with you. Puts you in a situation that will be hard to get out of. You need to break it off with him, and move his parents out. It doesnt seem like he likes you as much as you like him.
Truthfully I would break it off now.
2006-09-04 13:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by yournotalone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your current "boyfriend" couldn't care less. Just tell him you feel like you guys aren't working out then go with the new guy.
2006-09-04 13:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are they all living with you?? And after such a short period of time....
It sounds like they are all just taking advantage of you. Get them out.
2006-09-04 13:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is over with ur current boyfrienda nd u need to move on to this new man
2006-09-04 13:01:25 · answer #10 · answered by bluekrjupa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋