i am turning 20 soon...im a guy...still a virgin...do u think that its pathertic or wrong that i still havent had sex?
2006-09-04 05:39:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
It is not a problem at all .Here in our communities it is a crime to have sex before marrige.And if the girl wasn't found virgin ,she is divorced at once.Here men marry by the age of 30-35 due to economic problems & most of them don't have sex before marrige.And u know that any relations out of marrige is illegitimate,so try being a good man & do it only when u marry, a virgin woman .Good luck
2006-09-04 05:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm twenty-one, and I'm a virgin. So is my boyfriend of two years. That's one of the many things I love about him. I am waiting for marriage. He waited for love (and is now waiting PATIENTLY for me). Both are beautiful reasons. STD's..Not being ready for parenthood.. those are good reasons to wait too. It's not stupid, and it's most definitely not wrong. I do think it's rare, but that doesn't mean it's pathetic. In my opinion it's quite the opposite of that. Don't let anybody tell you differently.
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2006-09-04 13:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by Echo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you spelling stinks! I don't think it wrong. Do You?!! Maybe your confidence (or lack thereof?) might be part of the problem. You have to have a person that is ALSO interested in order to lose your virginity. Talk to some of your women FRIENDS, that can be HONEST with you, and maybe you'll get some where.
2006-09-04 12:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by Emily C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. I think you should be proud. I am also still a virgin (although I am younger) but I plan on being one until I am married. I'm saving myself and my virginity for my husband. What's so bad about that? So no, I don't think it's pathetic.
2006-09-04 12:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by Mary Ann 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not thats very good considering kids are looseing there virginity at 12 anymore you'll find the right person...Give it time your still very young.
2006-09-04 12:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have waited so long you think its a big deal.It's not.My brother-in-law was until he got married last year he was 25.I thought he was gay. He was just socially awkward.There is someone for everyone.
2006-09-04 12:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by carolinatinpan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..theres people out there who have never had sex or are still like 40 and havent had sex..theres tons more guys like u
2006-09-04 12:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by Ferrariluvr93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO There is a girl / woman out there just for you alone. Wait for her cause she is waiting to find you also. Good luck.
2006-09-04 12:44:23 · answer #8 · answered by JustAGirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, it's your life! if you don't want to have sex, good for you. it's just another quirk to your personality... just don't feel like you have to have sex to fit in or feel normal because who the hell wants to be normal, eh? have sex because you want to, not because you feel like you have to.
2006-09-04 12:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by misery 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-04 16:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by mike p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋