have been goign out with my bf for 3 years now, and i feel like am really being taken for granted, for the past 4 months we hardly see each other cause he has moved somewhere else and its me who has to pester him to meet up, and i have to do everythign to his convience even though i am the one who has finals soon and he is on holiday.......basically how do u get someone to stop taking you for granted
2006-09-04 05:37:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok guys he's not that useless he does call me at least twice a day.....but apart from that i feel like a nag...and i hate nagging
2006-09-04 05:53:14 · update #1
Girl he must not care for you enough to take you for granted and you can;t change someone so move on to someone that will appreciate you.
2006-09-04 05:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by nena24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's gorgeous and relaxing to be with... they are the purely solid belongings you've reported about him. His personality and looks ought to force each and each and every of the girls nuts, yet he's utilising you nuts, and in a nasty way... His oh-so-superb personality consists of him smoking, eating, popping pills, utilising cocaine, in no way listening to you, being a jerk, and transferring into fights. This proper guy tries to get you to do drugs then calls you a ***** once you refuse... he isn't any angel, and also you recognize it, yet neither I - nor all and sundry else - can inform you to unload him because that's no longer what you opt to hearken to. you go with reassurance that perchance he will substitute, that perchance he's nice for you, yet i'd be person-friendly darling, it would not look solid. What ought to you do? study your question again to your self and comprehend what you've were given. you're saying no human being knows how he quite is, and that i imagine that applies to you to boot... you could nicely be the envy of each and every of the girls, yet none of them would go with him in the adventure that they knew what he became quite like; in truth they might likely pity you for being with him. Sorry to be harsh, yet when he would not notably substitute any time quickly, you seriously isn't in a position to regulate him. From what i'm able to deliver collectively, the purely issues going for him are his looks, which will quickly be destroyed by technique of the booze and medicines besides - perchance you ought to open your eyes and word the no longer-so-distinctly human being interior... solid success honey. xx
2016-11-06 10:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by dopico 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you allow it, he will continue treating you like this. He doesn't have to pursue you at all; he just waits for you to "pester" him. Test his feelings for you. Don't call him. See if he misses you and calls you. When he does you will feel more secure with his feelings. Everyone (men and women) like a little challenge. Give him one. What do you have to lose? You've find out how much he really cares.
2006-09-04 05:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are a give and take. If you are the one giving all the time, get someone new to give to you and dont take your bf's garbage.
2006-09-04 05:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will only stop when you stop letting them take you for granted. He sounds extremely selfish.
2006-09-04 05:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by roeskats 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You explain how you feel to them yourself. He can't read your mind you know, so you're going have to talk to him and explain what you told us here. If he changes his attitude great if he doesn't then that's when I think you'll be happier if you break up with him.
2006-09-04 05:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying and see if he realizes just how much of an effort you were putting into it.
2006-09-04 05:44:34 · answer #7 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
igg'm the more U ignore him the more he thinks ur bang'n someone else and dat drives us men nutts..stop call'n him, ur makin yourself look desprate and weak I would take avandage of U too if U persue me like dat...Hmmmm call me!!
2006-09-04 05:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by veeviper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come to me. I won't take you for granted.
2006-09-04 05:44:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt want to bother with you, dont bother with him. Move on
2006-09-04 05:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋