I'm a 25 year old guy that is quite fat with stretch marks on my lower belly.
I'm looking for a girlfriend, but its quite hard.
I just wanted to know if girls would be put off going out with a fat guy with stretch marks. Does it disgust you.
will i ever get a girlfriend or I am just destined to live the rest of my life alone.
please tell the truth
2006-09-04 05:31:35 · 29 answers · asked by Playboy Grove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My fiance has some - sometimes they are faded and other times they are brighter but they never really go away. You could try some of those creams though they might help a little bit.
I wouldn't say I was disgusted at all I really don't notice them anymore.
By the time a girl is attracted to you, has been going out with you long enough to see you without a shirt, it shouldn't matter to her by then anyway. Some girls are more attracted to big guys anyway and they aren't really gonna care. The ones that would care obviously aren't the ones you want to date anyway!
You are NOT destined to spend your life alone!
One of the main reasons I and other women love big guys is because they have ( well MOST ) have an attitude about them that is sexy. Mostly this is black and hispanic men.. Uh honestly I'm not so sure about fat white guys. But then I just don't date white guys. (I'm white though). The only big white guy I like is the guy who plays Doug on King of Queens because he has such a great personality and he carries himself so well you don't even think he's fat.
So anyway what I notice most about my husband is the attitude and the style you got to always dress nice and be clean and neat and just act confident
Like Fat Joe. Notorious B.I.G. Doug. lol
Good luck
2006-09-05 17:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I want to be honest with you: Looks matter a lot BUT serendipity overcomes it. Be a gentle person and if you are nice and charming then you'll never end up alone. I know this might sound like talk to you but there'll be a spark when the time comes and you both will have stretch marks LAST on your minds (Plus you guys would be BOTH dressed at that time so who sees your stretch marks??? Just dress nicely and make a move... smile and say hi... it always starts with eye contact and a smile :)
2006-09-04 05:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by C h e e z C ஐ k e 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I dated a man who stood 6'5" and weighed about 500lbs the only reason we broke up is because he was hit by a drunk driver and crippled I didn't want to leave but he kept pushing me away telling me I deserved better. we still talk and have a son together. He was awesome he cooked cleaned helped with the kids and the best part he loved me for me .. oh and he was afreak in bed. You cant judge a book by its cover cause inside is where the best part lies. So show the world that ya maybe i am big and cause of this have stretch marks but with all the grief you are put through you are a stronger man because of it . So go ahead dress up do things you like and hold your head up high you are who you are and nothing can change that shes out there waiting around the corner for you, you just have to look. GL
2006-09-04 05:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
There's far more to attraction than that. If you're a great guy with a nice personality, and a girl likes you, she's unlikely to be put off by a few stretch marks. I know initial attraction is based on appearances, but be yourself, stop worrying and it will all happen.
2006-09-04 05:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If I were you. I would get involved in activities that I enjoy. Through this you will meet people with your interestes. Don't go looking for the perfect "barbie" type woman, but rather someone who has a good heart and shares interests with you. Sooner or later you will meet that right girl.
I met many guys. Mostly looked at the good looking ones. I never pictured myself with a man that is 15 years older then me and bald!
Anything can happen... Good Luck
2006-09-04 05:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Any mark on the body, a freckle, scar, stretch mark, is just part of the story of your life. The girl for you is out there. Stretch marks are not disgusting, they're a part of life.
Good luck, best wishes,
Flamingo
2006-09-04 05:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
you will! how come fat girls with stretch marks have boyfriends and husbands? its the beauty within that matters. If you feel insecure with your body you can alway try to loose a bit of weight but the stretch marks wont go away so you have to learn to love your body and you will feel more comfortable. good luck
2006-09-04 06:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by malaika 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If its the stretch marks you are worrying about, don't because 95% of men AND women have stretchmarks...even the skinny ones. Nobody is perfect and most people realize that, its just the vain ones that don't.
2006-09-04 06:32:00 · answer #8 · answered by Led*Zep*Babe 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hey hey, don't be silly! Some girls prefer fat guys,some don't. Personally I don't mind! But these days people don't know what love means: They always depend on looks! You see, I depend on what is in the INSIDE not the OUTSIDE... but hey there's nothing I can do about that but i wish i could. Best of luck..x
2006-09-04 05:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Seriously dude, you need to chill out. its not how you look thats holding you back, its how you project yourself. When you talk to women, talk to them because you like them dont look at every women as a potential girlfriend. Some women will take to you others wont, but the main thing to remember is that those who dont missed out on meeting a great person.
2006-09-04 06:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by phil y 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋