I have tried both of these. When you are loved you are treated well and the person is usually considerate and attentive. If at this point in time you don't love that person it's just plain annoying having this person you don't love always in your face.
When you love some one who doesn't love you well then you are the annoying one aren't you.
In my maturity I am now able to accept love from a person who I may not be madly in love with. I can accpet their admirable qualities and learn to love them for what they present and how they treat me. This being the case it becomes mutual. I would prefer it this way now because you can never be sure that another person will appreciate the love you are giving them.
2006-09-04 05:33:29
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answered by Anonymous
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Dont ever get into a situation where you& the other person don't feel the same about the relationship. it gets messy. there's nothing wrong with rebounding, but do it with someone who feels the same as you and who is'nt wanting something deeper than what you are capable of giving.
2006-09-04 12:33:53
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answered by Anonymous
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I would rather be with someone that I love, cause I would feel guilty being with someone who is crazy about me, while I'm lookng the other way. I would probably put distance between myself and the person that loves me, come to think of it.
2006-09-04 12:32:01
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answered by Hannah 5
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I would like to be with some I love and someone who loves me because u can't be in love by urself now can u.
2006-09-04 12:34:42
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answered by sexyblakk 3
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I was recently told that I should find someone that loves me, but who I just like. I haven't tried it yet, though. But I think it is an interesting concept.
2006-09-04 12:30:55
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answered by philly_gem 3
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You should never have to settle or compromise when it comes to love. You should be in a mutually satisfying relationship.
2006-09-04 12:30:49
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answered by mad 3
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WEll You had to choose one at not the other i would choose to be looved becuyase at least you would get treated nice if u was in love and he wasn't in love with u it would be much harder for u to let go and much harder
2006-09-04 12:29:51
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answered by !!yentruoc!! 3
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You need to find someone you love and someone that loves you back...
2006-09-04 12:31:10
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answered by cscollege07 2
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Someone who loves me. They'll always be faithful and consider me. I would learn to love them for loving me.
2006-09-04 12:30:43
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answered by Anonymous
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In my case beggers can't be choosers so I'll take whatever I can get. Yes it is
THAT BAD!!!
2006-09-04 12:32:46
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answered by Ben R 4
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