hey yall my boyfirend is actin wierd girl have yall been in it? what did u do and boy why are yall actin weird

Answer 1

Thanks for your e-mail that gave me a little more perspective on the problem.

If you two're still in highschool, I wouldn't worry too much about this guy, because there are plenty of other guys out there for you.

But to answer your question, are you sure that they aren't female friends of his?

If they aren't; then it sounds like he's tryin' to be "Mista Playa, Playa" and tryin to get as many girls' phone numbers and be seen with as many girls as he can so he can have some braggin' rights to his friends.

And if you're callin' him to find out what's goin' on; that can only feed his attention and ego, you're callin' and he's prob'ly chalkin' it up to more high fives from his buddies, if you can ask him about it.

just because you've gone out with him a couple of times during the summer, doesn't exactly mean that you two're an exclusive couple, it's a bit of a fine line.

And with school back in, there's plenty of new opportunities with more girls on the school campus to get their numbers; he's likely to go for it.

If he doesn't give you a straight answer, or no answer at all, then he's prob'ly playin' games; you're next move then would be to quit callin' him, and givin' him a reason to keep stringin you along. then start talkin' to other guys that interest you; hang back and don't call him (if you are doing this to question him about why he's actin' the fool.) for a couple of days and act like you don't notice that whether or not he's ignoring you. If he calls you and offers up a date, tell him no; even IF you don't have any plans, but tell him you've got other plans and maybe next time; and don't fall for any begging or prodding at you to get you to go out with him.

and while you're t it you can ask him why he's doin' it and if he still doesn't give you an answer, or at least a straight answer; cut him loose and move on, and don't look back or take his calls after that.

Because you don't have to take the game playin' because it's not worth it. and you've got to communicate that in any relationship if they start playin games (an all you girls and women out there: it goes the same for you, be straight up with the guy, 'cuz if you play games, you could wind up cut loose.)

I hope this helps, and good luck

Answer 2

how long u been with him