and when i do he makes me feel bad for asking..like i am out of line for asking...he says to me ...do i ever hold anything back. If he wanted me to move out he would definatly tell me..so what is his problem.is he tired of me?.. but doesn't want me to leave...and I know that he isn't cheating..........help ...sooo confused
2006-09-04 04:17:34 · 28 answers · asked by wyldmntgyrl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably doesn't have much experience with women or is afraid he'll do it wrong and don't want to upset you or make you feel uncomfortable. He's probably just shy. If he doesn't make you feel the way you want to, I don't think this man is right for you.
2006-09-04 04:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by Kaitlyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say women are strange but men r 2 if we could read minds we'd be on top of the world but we can't.Sometimes we as women have 2 sit back and just watch our men just 2 see what their habits r. If u just sit and watch him u will see just what he's all about I have done this many times 2 see just what it is that he likes and what he dosen't pay close attention 2 his mods. And sometimes u have 2 put men in the mod soft music,candles food, which is a must food that he like. u can learn a lot and pick up some pointers just by watching and don't let him catch u watch him this will make him mad do it on the slick side look but don't look .Don't forget 2 talk men don't like 2 talk. Give him a warm oil back rub that works what hell do the whole body see what on his mind..We as wome need 2 learn 2 help our men go to the next level even in making love. Now he may say he not up for it but be forceful beg if u have 2 give him some of your sexy entergy he just may need it. Or he may just don' know how 2 do whay u want him to do. We women r teachers u may have 2 show him and teach him what it is u want go head play it keeps u and your relationship YOUNG PLAY
2006-09-04 04:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by db31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK well have you thought of the possibility that he is just not physically attracted to you anymore? How long have y'all been together? My man is like that sometimes but only when he comes home from work and is tired and just wants to be left alone to relax for about 30 minutes or so. Yet we have been together for 4 years......
2006-09-04 04:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there are serious issues going on here between you and your man. When there are problems in the bedroom, it is almost always a symptom of problems in the relationship. Try to talk to him without asking anything of him. Just tell him how you're feeling. If you use "I" statements, he will feel less threatened. Example, "I feel that you don't want to be with me when you don't want to be intimate..."
2006-09-04 04:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by Lucrecia2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he had a bad week or something..the best thing to do is talk to him ask him if he really wants to go on, if he says yes then tell him why doesn't he touch you and if he used to touch you before, ask him why dont you touch me anymore? or why don't u let me touch you if u dont touch me someone needs to do the touchin in our relationship, right?
2006-09-04 04:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by ze_eminem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation is very confusing.....anytime a woman has to ask to be touched, there is something wrong. If you aren't totally committed to the relationship, maybe it's time to find someone who will appreciate you.
2006-09-04 04:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by sanambrosio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he isnt the touchy feeling type of person. Or he has certain religious believes that he needs to save himself for marrige or he likes it when A GIRL IS HARD TO GET!!!
2006-09-04 04:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by babystuff6262005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a control freak, who gets jealous easy and keeps tight reigns on him hes probably totally turned off by you. That might be it. But I'm just speculating.
2006-09-04 04:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is lying. he wants to end it but wants to make you end it. if i had to plead for attention like that i would pack my stuff and walk out. its not a relationship anymore when there is no affection. and it should not be a chore to touch and show at least some affection to your partner. that stress will make you feel like your worthless get out as soon as you can
2006-09-04 04:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time for u to leave him..if ur not getting to attention u want them he has issues..don't beg him to touch u or anything..u can find yourself a better man
2006-09-04 04:22:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋