My boyfriend has just broken up with me. I know it sounds stupid because in the grand scheme of things, being dumped isn't such a big deal but it really does feel like my life is over. When I think about not seeing him, talking to him etc... I start to cry and I can't stop. I feel sick and I don't want to think about how much I'm going to miss him. There's no risk of me ringing him and begging or anything stupid..so I don't need advice on that. I just want to feel better and I don't know how too. I'm always dissolving into tears (it only happened yesterday) Please help
2006-09-04 04:17:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give yourself some time; you can't immediately get over a guy who broke your heart. I'm glad you're mature enough to HANDLE the break up, since many gals cannot seem to muster the courage for that.
You will miss him, but this is also the time your friends need to circle around. Go to a movie, go shopping, go on a day trip, go hiking, etc. Get OUT of the house and go DO things with your friends and family.
And don't feel like you have to move on right away. You're going to be feeling pains for him for awhile. It hurts, it's terrible, but you'll survive. You are stronger than him. You are strong enough to carry on as the independent woman that you are! Once you realize that you don't NEED a guy to be happy, you'll be happy. Guys are great, but they aren't the key to happiness.
Good luck!
2006-09-04 04:19:41 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not the only guy in this world. Think positively, go to a spa or do strenuous exercises, it will make you feel better. Good luck!
2006-09-04 11:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read a good book or watch a good movie. Take ur mind off him for awhile. Relax. or u could take a bubble bath and stuff like that. Pamper urself.
2006-09-04 11:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by faerygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to say it but the only way i was able to get over the ex was to think of all the bad things he did to me so in turn i would be angry at him instead of missing him...
2006-09-04 11:20:22 · answer #4 · answered by wyldmntgyrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all hurts, but go out with friends and have good times and you'll forget all about whatshisname.
2006-09-04 11:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by jowolf87 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yo gurl forget bout him!!
he's the one who doesnt appreciate precious jewels like us gurls...
go out with ur ladies friends and have a wild party at the bar or anywhere!!!!
show him that u can be strong without him...
2006-09-04 11:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by madpianist_hahaha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get life going
2006-09-04 11:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is living well.
2006-09-04 11:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by sweet & sour 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya gotta live for yourself girl, otherwise you will never be happy
2006-09-04 11:23:12 · answer #9 · answered by poot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋