Why do men think ?

Question

That they have the right to grab your backside when your in a club.

Does it matter what i wear out!! It gives a men no right to touch me, weather i have a skirt or trousers on. So do it again and your going to get a right hook got it.... Grrrrrr

Answer 1

I know exactly what you are talking about and its disrespectful. I have many times had to threaten physical violence to get them to remove their hands off of me. Now I don't go anywhere without my husband, and it helps a lot since he never leaves my side. But in the past I would only go with a large group of friends that would always help with getting you out of those situations.

Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel

Answer 2

Some stupid men think they can get away with anything because some stupid women who have no self-respect give them this idea. If you are not happy that someone does this to you, you should let him know in an assertive way (not punching him or pouring a drink on him as suggested in some of the answers). Dress in a way that suggests dignity and respectability. A lot of young ladies do not seem to know that they could be giving the wrong signals to men by the way they dress and behave. I'm not accusing you of deliberately attracting the wrong type of attention by the way you look or behave but it is worth checking because you may not be aware of the social signals given by clothes/looks/gestures. I agree with the person who says it is easy for a girl to give the signal that she is available when she goes clubbing because this is the generally perceived purpose of going clubbing nowadays.

Answer 3

No-one has ever grabbed my backside in a club ... Must be going to the wrong places!

It's the drink ... it makes us all studs, makes us act like cavemen and makes us think we're the best thing since sliced bread.

I reckon a slap would solve your problems, or a strategically spilt drink - straight in his crotch!

Answer 4

well if you dont say anything then they get away with it dont they. plus look at those guys those guys wanted to go to a club and basically try and score with a girl do you think they have any morals or respect for women, well maybe some do but not the guys who grab butts.

Answer 5

They actually have no right to do it at all,But come on just take it as a compliment,men are just silly so if they cant think of any thing to say they think that grabbing your **** will get your attention instead.
Ahhhh if only they knew how stupid it was!! x

Answer 6

Well in my opinion chicks that go clubbing are "in the market" for guys. I'm not saying its ok for a guy to touch you but its an environment for post pubessant raging hormone driven, misguided teen and post teen nut bags.

Answer 7

i know it just shows they have no respect,want 1 thing and are immature.i mean its ok if you know the person and their being cheeky or having a laugh but if its a stranger do they honestly think you will think i like you,do it again! half the time it causes agro cus afew times men have gone to far in the way theyve touched me and ive turned around and nearly knocked them out or give them a mouthful! x

Answer 8

I agree with you dizzymooo no man should touch a woman without her express permission, its a violation of your personal space and could be construed as assault. I think you should just belt them for it and that would certainly let them know that there advances were unwelcome and unwanted

Answer 9

Probably the same reason women playfully brush our front sides in the clubs?

Answer 10

Women with little to know respect for themselves allow men to do this so they begin to think that is the acceptable way to treat all women... Not so!