is there really one person out there for all of us. a soulmate who we'd live happily ever after with?? and if we did'nt feel like the person we're with was the one should we just get rid and keep on searchin??...
2006-09-04 04:06:03 · 50 answers · asked by chapperz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes there is "the one" for me .. I married mine.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-04 04:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally believe that there is more than one soulmate inthe world at any one time. It depends how you define soulmate. I have been married before but I know now, late in life, that I have met my true soulmate, the love of my life. If you don't feel the person you are with is, then I think that the relationship is not right and you should, as you say, get rid, until you find someone you can be happy and compatible with. Hope this answers your question.
2006-09-04 04:11:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is no such thing as a soul mate. Initially when you start to go out with someone you can feel lust and head over heels in love from a physical and the feeling of a spiritual connection. Alternatively, you can start going out with someone and feel like you would be really compatible with them. Both are good and both can work. You fall in love truly when you spend time together and grow to really know one another. When you hit hard times and you work through them, you begin to love each other more and more. It is always worth keeping someone you love and care about in your life because your relationship bond will grow stronger. I wish someone had told me this. I had to learn it all for myself, that movies where people fall in love with their soul mates and live happily ever after...well that's just not reality. Love is choice and I might add, it is the most beautiful and best choice one can make.
2006-09-04 04:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by applecheeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that is possible, but if you look realistically around you, it has become the norm for people to have a number of partners during their life time. i believe that you can over a lifetime truly love more then one person. though i suggest one at a time .
dropping someone because you are scared that you don't have the one can be a mistake, as you are looking for something that might not exist. i adored my husband from when i met him, but i would be lieing if i said it has been plain sailing all the way.we have weathered some bumps along the way, and are at a great place where we no longer try to change each other, accept that there are loads of other nice people out ther , but we are still happy. point being , if i was dissatisfied, no longer respected him i would feel the need to end it.
no-one is perfect , so why believe that you will find a perfect partner. as long as you are happy most of the time(believe me there are moments-he calls it PMS) enjoy what you have.
if he is a miserable so and so or abuses you or annoys you endlessly -then ditch him.don't stay with someone out of fear that you won't find someone better or the misguided thought that you are meant to mate for life, no matter what.
2006-09-04 04:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by saywot? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! I found mine 11 years ago. I went all the way to Japan to find him and yes he's American! From the minute I saw him, I knew he was my other half. Some people don't believe in soulmates and that there is one person for everyone, but I do. I am living the dream. Do we ever fight and argue?? Sometimes...we are normal people, living a normal life...BUT do we love each other more than life itself?? YES. and I still look at him and see the passion, spark, chemistry that I saw when I looked at him. He is my best friend, my everything. I cannot see my life without him in it and when we are apart, we want to be together. and we're going on 11 years now! The spark has never died. I feel like we are a puzzle that is just meant to be together and when we are apart I feel like a piece of me is missing.
2006-09-04 04:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by Keri E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to think so but now not so much. I think that everyones soul touches you in a way that makes you happy. I think that each person you know u have in your life for a reason. Sometimes it is a short time others a lifetime.
You will never be completely satisfied with your life. Most people never are. At some point you will say your job sucks, your hub made you mad, your kids are acting up, your car is a piece of ****...etc....that is life and the sooner u see that life is not all a bed of roses all the time, but it is ok. Be happy for what you have and live in the moment...each moment you breath is a gift...REALIZE THAT and you should be happy with what you have. Someone out there is always more unfortuante than we are, their life sucks more than ours....be thankful for what you have today.
2006-09-04 04:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by Eastcoast beachgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that people have more than one soulmate, but that the chances of finding more than one of them in your lifetime is incredibly rare. If you don't see a future with the person you're with, then what's the point of being in the relationship, really? There is someone closer to soulmate material out there and you should go out and find that person. I recently ended a relationship I had been in for over a year and a half, only to have someone amazingly incredible (a.k.a. soulmate material) fall into my lap. May the same happen to you!
2006-09-04 04:10:49 · answer #7 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These days, who knows? Just quit looking and he'll probably show up. May not be the right one, but someone might show up.
Men just aren't the same as they used to when I grew up. But I'm sure there are some good ones out there. Finding them is the problem. I just prefer to quit looking, enjoy life the best I can, and let them find me. And believe me, I take a close look these days. You have to. Too many disappointments just jumping into things.
2006-09-04 04:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by one_sahara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that there is really someone out there for every one that you are destined to meet. Sure, you may not find them the first time around, but keep looking! You know when you look at them and all you can think about is how perfect they are. It feels better than flying or floating or whatever. You look in their eyes and you just know the moment you see them that you can look in those eyes for the rest of your life. You can wake up next to them every day and they can never cease to amaze you. You as a couple are always growing and your love for each other is life touching. There is someone out there for everyone. It is just up to both of you to find each other. <3
2006-09-04 04:14:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeh! I had her 10 years ago, but had to let her go because she took over my life. I will never forget her as long as I live. Out of all the women I have dated I have never had the same connection as I had with her. There out ther keep searchin.
2006-09-04 04:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by oooooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋