the boy i like has cancer no the boy im in love with has cancer, and he likes me too, btu im not suppose to know that hell b completely cured in a few months but what should i do after? obviously im not gonna push him or anything but what am i suppose to do? and hes gonan tell me he likes me when hes ready, but that might b in a rly long time. so hat should i do?
2006-09-04 03:56:06 · 8 answers · asked by baby b 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
You should pray for him and be there for him. Don't ask him right now to make any decisions because he is going through a rough time and have a lot of other things to think about. Reassure him that you will be there for him every step of the way to recovery. Tell him that you are love him and wish to be with him but you are not going to put any pressure on him to make a decision now. Good luck.
2006-09-04 04:01:56 · answer #1 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I spent 17 years working in a cancer hospital, primarily with children and teenagers. The best way to treat someone with cancer is the same way you'd treat someone without it. They don't change into something different just because of their illness.
And no cure is guaranteed. If you really have special feelings share them. Do be sure that what you feel isn't just sympathy. You don't know for sure he'll tell you he feels the same way or not, but pretending nothing is going on isn't being honest to yourself. Caring about someone is good even if you don;t get back the same affection you expect. Loving others always makes us better, however it is received.
I've seen miracles and tragedies. Don't miss out by delaying based on what might or might not happen.
2006-09-04 11:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Support him through the last months of his illness. When he's ready, like you said, he'll tell you. There's no reason to rush him- he's already gone through so much; give him some time.
And anyway, it's not like you need to confess your undying love urgently, right?
2006-09-04 11:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by sweateredpanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stay with him and help him through this hard time. When he is well again, he will remember that you were true blue through his illness. He will probably like you even more because you showed how much you care for him.
2006-09-04 10:59:30 · answer #4 · answered by parental unit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-04 14:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by agarcia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep being the boy's friend. Don't push, don't hurry...it is apparent you are both very young.
2006-09-04 11:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep being his friend. he has a lot going in right now.
2006-09-04 11:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by MC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of cancer? lots of cancers can be treated.
2006-09-04 11:02:38 · answer #8 · answered by CamiNicolau 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋