There's this girl that likes my boyfriend. When they first started talking my boyfriend said that they were just friends but now she wants to be much more. She told him that she is his girlfriend now and that I am the side-kick. She then asked him what his girlfriend name was and he said my name...lol that made her mad. Everytime we're talking on the phone, she's calling on the other line. I don't want to tell him that he can't talk to her because I don't want to restrict his freedom. But, she is really getting on my nerves.
2006-09-04 03:43:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well he should be the one telling her not to call. If he doesn't care about your feelings, then you shouldn't consider him your boufriend.
2006-09-04 03:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by Crazymomo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem is not the girl. Your boyfriend can't help it if birds fly around his head, but he can stop them from making a nest. You can't always be there.You kids never give your ages when stating these problems , you may feel that age doesn't matter, it does.
Forget about the girl, ask your boyfriend to lay down the rules. I'm sure he's flattered but does he understand the unnecessary stress he's causing you.
Let him know how you feel. His next action well let you know where you stand.
2006-09-04 03:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is really cool of you to not be restrictive with your boyfriend. Chicks like you rock! Now once he steps over his boundaries however you have every right to whoop his a$$.
As far as this chick goes... I think you should tell your BF that you are getting bothered by her interests in him and that you trust his loyalty to you but if it escalates any further tell him that you are going to confront her and make yourself understood that your man will not be skeezed upon unless she wants a rude awakening.
2006-09-04 03:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your bf respects your relationship he would refrain from talking to her. He should tell her "bugger off". Tell him that this sort of thing is really getting on your nerves. Be open to him you are not resticting him. You're just being honest that the situation makes you uncomfortable.
2006-09-04 03:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't have time for such childish things & move on!
I wouldn't even waste my time on a guy who gets off from having two girls arguing about who is "really" his girlfriend.
2006-09-04 03:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad you've got competition now. If he chooses you, it will be because he liked you more. It would be sad for him to date you because you are the only one interested, then marry you, then be tempted by some tramp....
2006-09-04 03:48:17 · answer #6 · answered by Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well
ur being jealous but dont worry it happens all the time! just tell her that hes ur bf and that u wanther to not talk to him as much...but then again she mite just be friends
2006-09-04 03:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by dagermon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get over it. Find a new man, he obv not worth your time anyway if he's playing both of you.
2006-09-04 03:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw a beatin' on her! Apparently a very ignorant wench!
2006-09-04 03:47:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you liked him you should respect him. no offense but you go out when you have the sames. so live thru it and ull get there
2006-09-04 03:46:47 · answer #10 · answered by zdavens 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋