Im 24 have a lot of money and am very successful. Why do people act differently around me when they find out I am rich. I worked for it while they were at a crap university. I want to know why girls are so shallow.
I was out with some friends when a crowd of girls were hassling my friends when my friend told them I was rich to get rid of them. They came to the bar and asked the bar man to add their order to my bill. I stopped him and they said your rich aren't you buy us some drinks.
I refused and walked away, they repeatedly offered themselves to me throughout the night offering group sex etc.
I am a good looking guy and I can get most girls if i wanted so why do these girls think I would pay for it? By the way I live in Essex.
2006-09-04 03:39:17 · 29 answers · asked by Mark U 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not all girls are this shallow, and pathetic, offering group sex for a free drink, wow, pride.
I had a chance to marry an extremely rich man once, and was going out with a guy I loved at the time, didn't think twice, chose my boyfriend, we've since split up, but I don't regret my decision for a moment.
maybe you're looking in the wrong circles for a girlfriend, maybe you should try more up market places where the women will be earning similar money to you, then you know for sure, they're with you cause they love you and not cause of any amount of money.
money is the root of all evil!
2006-09-04 04:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out of essex! ha, ha. You need to stop flaunting your money and inform your friends that you would rather they not broadcast the fact you have money to every tom, dick and harry you meet. Your true friends shouldn't be doing this anyway. If you're out and you meet a girl and you end up chatting and she asks what you do for a living tell her the truth but tone it down, for example I am a secretary/PA but if I wanted to I could say I work in admin, it doesn't sound as big but that's the effect your hoping for. The only way you're going to find a girl who likes you for you is for her not to realise just how much money you have, if you fall in love she'll find out eventually and it will just be a nice suprise. Don't splash your cash too early, girls aren't going to think your rich if you take them to a nice restuarant that is affordable for the average person but they will if you take them somewhere very expensive. As a woman the best way to judge from the off if a girl is genuine is this: on a first date I think it's very winning if the man pays but the woman should always offer, if she doesn't try to put her hand in her pocket once then she's just expecting you to pay which is very rude. If she does offer tell her it's ok and that you'll sort it out. Any date after that you can both pitch in but seriously tell your friends to keep quiet and make sure they aren't only hanging around you for your money either!
2006-09-04 11:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by friendloveblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee! I can not tell you why Mister by the way I live in Essex? It could be your winning flash of wit or your cunning story of drive and shear personality. Maybe you should stop waving that Rollie flashing them 5P bags driving that sex mark car. I really don't know why those woman could possibly get the idea that you would pay them for sex from you need too tell your guy friends to shut up before you be paying your baby's mum maybe if you hung out some place quite and with a little less flash you can meet a nice down home girl that would love to have man for having a mans sake or maybe you just get off on all the attention and fuss.
2006-09-04 10:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should stop looking and acting rich, you say it bothers you but from the tone in your question, you seem proud of what you have achieved, nothing is wrong with that. If it bothers you that much look at real ways of making those problems of your disappear, but if you are just thinking about it, then deal with the crap that comes along with having more available cash than most people you know.
2006-09-04 10:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by Solitary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's Essex girls for you darling!!! there is a reason behind the saying!! Thats was well cheeky of them to ask you to pay for their drinks!! my gosh! I think you are are after a bit more class than the women you have been meeting - next time, try and find someone who is a bit more independant that doesnt need a man who is loaded to have a good time. gosh women like them really p i s s me off. its like go get some pride for f u c ks sake. too many chantelles and jodie marsh wannabees. baby, you will meet your girl.
2006-09-04 10:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.Trouble 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as if you didn't already notice not many people are rich and all people wish the were rich. not all girls are shallow and maybe because of where you are hanging out is the main problem. dont tell a girl that you have money, get to know her first and then she'll find out.
2006-09-04 10:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are still lots of people who I believe will like you not for your money alone. It's better that when you meet new acquaintances, they should not be told by anybody that you are rich. You will see their real character when no money is involved.
I think you also have friends who are your friends only for as long as you are rich. Tell them that you have gone broke, and see who among them will remain as your friends.
I know that one day, you will meet someone who will love you not because of your money but rather because you are someone who is lovable and worth caring for. With your money and good looks, many women will really run after you but among them, somehow, someone may love you for who you are excluding your riches and fame.
2006-09-04 10:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other guy who said not to let on that you have money & I'd be telling my friends to "shut it" too so that you can get to know a person & money never enters into the equation...that way, if & when they do find out, it will only be Icing on the cake.
2006-09-04 10:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by kibbie01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you must be rich living in essex...not you certainly dont need money there no wonder ya rich theres nothing there to spend ya money on and house prices are dirt cheap these girls only know ya loaded because you or ya mates are telling people
2006-09-04 12:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, money doesn't buy love of happiness, the right girl will come along in time and hopefully she will love you for who you are.
Why don't you also explain to your friends that yes you do have money but you don't want everyone knowing your business, if they are good true friends they should understand this and respect you.
2006-09-04 10:54:25 · answer #10 · answered by Caro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋