XAIPE dear!
Well, I can understand what you mean!
Congratulations for your stand! You have principles and expose them! This is very rare and shows character!
Please, be careful, people do not appreciate others who still have what what they themselves have lost!
All the best, Be strong!
If you need more discussion, send me a message (although I see you are strong enough and can succeed in anything you aim at!)!
Further, you wrote that you feel you don't know yourself! Well, this is what made Socrates the wisest man on Earth: that he admits that while all others claim they are the best or know something!
2006-09-05 06:22:48
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answered by soubassakis 6
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They say you never regret the ones you kissed just the ones you didn't.
Degrading yourself....hmmm...really only you can do that to yourself, others can try but in the end it's up to you to decide to do it.
Is degrading yourself connected with sex? Only if you make the connection, personally I think they are totally seperate things.
Society often connects things together to have us conform.
You are single so there is no significant other to hurt. If you know that you are having sex just for sex and play and the other person has the same expectation, i.e. nobody gets hurt, and you use protection what is the problem ?
You might let out your artistic and creative side and be more ready sexually to attract someone special for a relationship later.
2006-09-04 15:02:00
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answered by lifeontrack2006 4
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I think personally the only way a person can grow and experience themselves in different ways is to put themselves into situations they wouldn't normally be in i.e one night stands. You keep banging on about society and how you'll be perceived but in all fairness, you are who you are regardless. In my opinion, i think you should get out there and do whatever you feel like doing. If you meet a hot bloke and are sexually attracted to him and want to have sex but not a relationship then do it. At the end of the day sex is sex and short of masturbating all the time how else are you going to know what you like. Why are you so worried what everyone thinks about you, look after number one and do what makes you happy. Everyone understands that women have sexual needs and how you go about fulfilling them is entirely up to you. Do what makes you happy.
2006-09-04 11:10:50
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answered by Anonymous
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Hi Smart Babe. Hope you read this before you stop looking for answers. I am a girl too and I just wanted to share something that your question made me think of. I think I have been right where you are. I have always had a lot of men in my life (whether I wanted them there or not), but sometimes it just got so frustrating. I wanted sex, but I didn't. I wanted a relationship, but I was tired of all the games that came with it. I was all messed up inside. That's when I took a one-girl-vacation. I just allowed myself to drop out. I told people I was going to be away for a while and I just let it all go. I was celibate. I was on my own. I took a breather. So, that's what I wanted to say. It really helped me and I hope it could help you too.
2006-09-04 10:47:43
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answered by Isis 7
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Londonbased, you are too primitive. Why is a woman a slag if she wants sex? Itsa personal decision weather or not to have casual sex. I have it when I'm single. It has not stopped me from having relationships afterwards. And I am not a slag.
2006-09-04 11:07:23
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answered by camilla 1
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wow u r complex........ur attracted t a guy but dont want a relationship....want to explore ur needs but no one night stand....seems like some movies and a personal massage tool may be what u need until u decide what u want...
2006-09-04 10:32:55
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm not going to care about my bad reputation we r not living in the past and a girl can do what she wants to do... move out from the countrysite
2006-09-04 11:04:48
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answered by Mag 2
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Quit thinking that you are "degrading" yourself by having one-night stands...that is silly! If you like sex, just have it, and quit over-analyzing everything you do.
2006-09-04 10:32:43
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answered by Anonymous
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The only way you'll know yourself is to explore yourself and vary your experience. However everyone goes through periods where they are unsure of themselves, trust me I know.
2006-09-04 10:32:30
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answered by Anonymous
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you cant its either one or the other, one night stands are for slags even the girls that do this know they are but try to put it at the back of there mind. dont change is my advice
2006-09-04 10:48:14
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answered by londonbased 1
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