Okay, I think it was thursday I broke up with the best boyfreind i'd ever had...To try and patch things up w/ my ex...But then when I went to school thursday my ex. Was talking to this other girl about "Dating"... And I sorta regret breaking up with boyfriend for my retard ex...What should I do??????
2006-09-04 03:24:17 · 15 answers · asked by Has31 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget them both...
2006-09-04 03:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hillary I don't think that the day matters just the predicament you've gottn yourself into. Ask yourself why you broke up with your ex in the first place and problem 1 is solved. You can't change people especially men unless they are willing and love you enough to allow you to do so.
The next question is if this other guy was the best why did you break up? Broken Hearts are hard to mend, but just maybe the best will wait for you to make up your mind and give you the benefit of the doubt. Good Luck!
2006-09-04 10:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by hobbyguy4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if he was the best boyfriend you ever had why did you break it off with him? You need to sit and think about why you broke up with him and went back to ex. There is some reason.
Maybe try talking to the first guy and tell him you regret it. GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-04 10:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to decide whether or not he is worth being with, if you are not sure weigh up the pros and cons about what you like about him and what you don't.
Then sit down together and talk about why you broke up, apologise and ask whether you could both try again, and talk through any issues that either of you may have so that it won't affect your relationship in the future.
And if he decides to call your relationship a day then you will unfortunately have to accept it, but see if you can finish on good terms if possible as it is always good to have someone either of you can depend on in the future if necessary.
But, at the end of the day anyone on here can give you advice, but it is up to you to try and rekindle your relationship with your b/f.
Would ever happens I wish you all the best.
2006-09-04 10:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to live with your decision. Men have big egos. Your recent ex probably won't take you back and you will look foolish. But you can try knowing that you might just fall flat on your face. How about taking a break from guys and just have fun with your friends. Study extra harder and help your siblings out. Enjoy being "single" for awhile.
2006-09-04 10:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by Kellybelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I sorta regret breaking up with boyfriend for my retard ex" ok huns if u regret it so much u wouldn't call him that.
Also if u broke up with him, there was a reason to it. I think u are probably jealous that he is already looking for some one else.
2006-09-04 10:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to him about your feelings and see where it leads you
Good luck in the situation
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-04 10:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u basically screwed urself. but u shud get ova ur ex completely, cause if u will leave ur current bf for him, then there is no point having a current bf. but if u want ur most recent bf back then tell him and hope he understands.
2006-09-04 10:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by chips_ryn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should let time go by and let him loose intrest in her or right now you should call him and tell him why you did it and that you were having a bad night so completly apoligise tell him how much you love him and youhae to tell him why broke up
2006-09-04 10:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by Donna P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all make mistakes. if the other boyfriend doesn't want you back then you are going to hurt for a while but you will get back on your feet. slow down and be choosy.
2006-09-04 10:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by maxossa1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to your bf. He may be wary at first, but if you explain, he might listen. Just MIGHT.
2006-09-04 10:25:44 · answer #11 · answered by Kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋