Today when I was fighting with my boyfriend, because I was really mad and I wanna say something to hurt him, I said: I don't enjoy havin g sex with you!You sux in bed!
Then I felt so bad and he wouldn't talk to me now... What should I do???I really regret saying that....
2006-09-04 03:16:21 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but the truth is, he is actually great in bed! He gave me the best sex I have ever had! It took me 6 months to let him know that I love our sex, but now I think he will never forgive me...
2006-09-04 03:20:39 · update #1
Well darlin
Sometimes
it is like that
you may have to keep moving along the assembly line
until you decide what you are looking for in life
2006-09-04 03:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by Queen A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sin has consequences. Also, there must be some reason you said that. I think, you have repressed resentment toward him. You have no business having sex if you are not married. You may as well face it, he is not going to forgive you for saying that. It will always be in the back of his head, you see. Shame on you, you crushed a man where it really hurts. Hope you learned a lesson. You were trying to be too controlling, girly. You were trying to really hurt him and you did. Your relationship probably will never truly recover from your remark. Regardless of how remorseful you might be. There is no way to take it back and no way he won't remember what you said to him.
2006-09-04 03:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U told a guy he doesn't leave up too ur expectations in bed now thats a real big mistake u really need to make it up too him now what ever he likes apart from sex keep on giving it to him
2006-09-04 03:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we all say things in our anger, I think you need to ask yourself where is this anger coming from. Underneath all anger is pain, and anger is not a deadly sin but the key here for you is to learn to use your anger in a constructive fashion. Tell him the truth, you said things in the heat of anger and you are really sorry and in reality he is the best lover you have ever had.
2006-09-04 03:42:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u hit a man where it hurts the most.what r u going to do. cry beg tell him to tell u the worst abt u anything to just make things better. tell him u wanted to hurt him thats y u said something that wasnt true, u were angry and just wanted to take out that anger and that was the first thing that came to mind and that he knows how much plesure he gives u . he is the only one who has ever pleasured u like that.
hope he forgive su
2006-09-04 03:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats harsh, make it up too him,before he get in from work put on a sexy lingerie piece, i mean the works suspenders, boots everythink, cook him a nice meal, light some candles, really set the mood.
If this doesn't work, its time to turn nasty chuck him on the floor, sofa or bed and make it up to him that way, this should work.
Good luck, no offence but i think you may need it.
2006-09-04 03:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by Angel666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really terrible mistake,I am sorry for you.When men feel hurt in their dignity,always they will take vendetta about that.I wonder:If what you say is true,find another man.If you said it,because you were really angry,but is not true:try to apology to him,and fix the relationship.I am not sure if that is gonna work.If he love you indeed,yes you will fix the problem.Good luck.
2006-09-04 03:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anger management............. always think about the repercussions before u say stuff in anger.. because some things u can never take back.. this is prob one of them...u just have to make him believe that u did not mean it ..and that u do enjoy sex w him....and if u get a chance t show him then do so... best o luck.... remember put your brain in gear before moving your lips
2006-09-04 03:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch!!! that was totally the worst thing you could say. All i can say is tell him that you were extremely upset and thought of the worst thing you could possibly say to him and it just came out and apologize to him. Then just let him be....hopefully he will love you enough to forgive you and then if you are like most couples. . . woohoo time for make up sex!!!! lol
2006-09-04 03:22:52 · answer #9 · answered by MysteryMan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the ONE thing that you should NEVER attack during an argument. I get vicious when I fight but I've never gone there. You have some serious making up to do but be prepared for him to be hurt & pissed for a long time.
2006-09-04 03:18:49 · answer #10 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋