Why is it that people get in a relationship with the intention of being unfaithful. It makes no sense whatsoever.
If you decide to commit to someone shouldnt you be satisfied with that person rather than lookin elsewhere for pleasure or satisfaction?
I believe that if you truly arent happy then you should just break it off with the person rather than keeping them hanging around due to your own selfish desires.
If you really love the person you would want what is best for them.
Anyone agree???
2006-09-04 03:15:18 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. I had this discussion with a friend yesterday. If you commit to someone then you should stick by them, there's no excuse for cheating. If you're not happy then break off the relationship.
Even if it was a drunken mistake, I don't believe that's an excuse as you shouldn't let yourself get into that sort of position if you're in a relationship.
2006-09-04 03:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you, I'm a firm believer that if you want to cheat then do them the favor and call it off. Use whatever excuse you want if you can't deal with telling them the real reason and then you're both free.
I would do the same if it were me.
I do realise that sex is a powerful thing but if you've commmitted to someone then why cheat.
I've been cheated on more times than I know of so now I just get rid. I don't care whatever the circumstances are, the excuse "I was drunk" doesn't wash with me.
2006-09-04 03:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree - although I don't know if people get into relationships with the intention cheating! I think its something that happens along the way. The right thing to do if people find themselves in this situation is be honest with all parties concerned!!
Or perhaps I'm just being naive...
Anyway - yes I agree with you!
2006-09-04 03:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by Robbie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think its a committed relationship if one has the intention of cheating.Just watch for the signs if by your 2ND date that's all they talk about or think about that's your sign.Don't let it go any further.Some think its all about what they can get while the getting is good.
I do have to agree with you 100% just too much of it.
2006-09-04 03:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno. I used to go out with this girl and we were really close and happy, but I met some other girl in a nightclub and she was just pure sex on legs.
I ended up cheating on my then girlfriend and wholly admitted to it the next day but it was like I couldn't help myself. I was committed to the relationship and I didn't go in to it thinking "She'll do until someone better comes along", but this just kind of happened.
What's a guy to do?
(Just so you know, I'm with someone new now (well, we're getting married soon) and I hardly even LOOK at other women these days)
2006-09-04 03:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree 100 percent
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-04 03:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you.
I'd split up with someone, not cheat on them, but then I'm serious about my relationships - I guess some other people don't take it that seriously, they just want to have fun. If both partners are like that then neither of them can complain. The problem arises when one is serious but the other is not.
2006-09-04 03:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get my vote of agreement! Its like WHY put another person through the pain and humiliation of being cheated on when as you say you could just finish it. I mean if you're going to cheat, the relationship is over anyway right?
2006-09-04 03:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't agree, simply because what you call cheating, others call open relationships/marriages. There are dozens of couples that while they are married, also like swapping or as I said open relationships if for nothing else adds excitement to their marriage. The parameters must be set and defined, before you call it cheating or try moralizing.
2006-09-04 03:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by tony 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you and have been hurt so many times I've lost count. I think people don't realise the consequences of their selfish actions. It's hard to trust anyone after being hurt again and again.
2006-09-04 03:26:36 · answer #10 · answered by amanda k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋