how do you find people who genuinely like you?
and how can u tell?
2006-09-04 03:08:15 · 8 answers · asked by iamlaura2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well actually yes. i have been in that situation. here's my advice. just do what you always do. make good friends w/ them first, and don't jump to the final step... friendship is a gradual state that never ends, just coninues on and on. so, make friends and get close first. c how lond this lasts; can u trust them? do they trust you? are they areally a friend? or do they want something? you can find this out during the "just friends" period.....
afterwhich, you should be ablt to tell what their interior motive is. after all, there is some1 out there 4 u, just wait.... and they will come....
2006-09-04 03:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by muahaha smarty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes many years ago, I dated a girl from school who only dated me to get to get to a friend of mine, she ended up sleeping with my friend and fell pregnant at sixteen. He used her for sex and then dumped her. She tried to craw back but I was discusted by the whole thing and didn't talk to either of them again. They lost out big time in many ways. They lost many friends and today I still hold my head up high. You find genuine people through bad experiences that you learn from. You just naturally pick up on it.
You generally meet good people when your not looking.
Theres some of my experiences
Good luck
2006-09-04 10:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by oooooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter (13) is doing that. She likes the boys in the neighborhood of her g/f. Then she can sleep over, and see them the entire weekend. She told me one is a boyfriend to her now. My daughter is a sweet girl and she treats her friend nicely, but doesn't really LIKE her. Sorry to tell you this story without an answer, but I wish I had one for you. I have no clue why people in general do that.
2006-09-04 10:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people can be jerks. Stay alert to their games. You will find someone who truely likes you. Good luck.
2006-09-04 10:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by RayRay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and once I found out I stopped seeing her. Of course she had already made her connection with my friends so it didn't do any good. To answer your second, I don't know.
2006-09-04 10:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by Texan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh there are really many kind ppl..
you are the hope....
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the passion you are , and and the happiness with you ..
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oh whom owned the life and the soul mine...
o whom are the happiness of my heart..
and the wise of the mind...
o whom you are the last dream, and the last wishes which i wish ..
the hope you are , and the last love which i search for...
love you ...
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2006-09-04 10:13:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they will want to be with you alone
they'll want to be with you when you didn't put any effort into your looks
they'll want to be with you no motter what happens
now to find them you have to b yourself and if they're staring at you intently its either because you have something on you or its because they might have just fallen in love with you...
2006-09-04 10:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the heck . . . . . friends ,friends , friends . . . .let's make real fun . . . . u wanna come over my house . .. haha
2006-09-04 10:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by kautilya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋