Aren't our most painful experiences also our deepest learning experiences?
2006-09-04 03:00:51 · 16 answers · asked by Isis 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
No your just smarter than the average bear, though I believe we learn from our mistakes, the bigger they are the less likely we will be to forget them or their consequences.
2006-09-04 03:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by flower wanda 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-06 09:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by greenwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you have experienced a learning from previous happenings, so that is why it does not hurt as much. Over time, You become resiliant or tougher to challenges life throws your way. I wouldn's say the most painful would be the deepest. A death is painful, often time there is not much to learn about it. Just how to overcome the grief. But you can also learn from simple experiences such as a problem with co-workers, neighbors etc which can be just as valuable.
2006-09-04 03:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by Heidimax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I have experienced some of my deepest pain of late, yes I will certainly learn from it....the person who hurt me...I don't know that they will ever learn and will go on to hurt others....that saddens me! The positives are that my painful experiences can be shared to help and encourage others in the same situation!
2006-09-04 06:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's the most painful and hardest experiences that give us the biggest lessons, but that doesn't mean that hurting is the only way we could learn our lessons. We can learn from the experiences of people around us, and sometimes, just watching people teaches you a lot of things. It all depends on the person, because all of us have different learning capabilities. Some people learn their lessons one way, others learn it the other way.
To answer your question, no. We don't learn less just because we hurt less.
2006-09-04 03:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Linking pain with learning is an exclusive characteristic of human beings.
Please know this, Human Beings are not the only conscious beings in this vast Universe. And Pain is NOT a prerequisite to Learning!
Have fun but be safe.
2006-09-04 03:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for me. I've learned the most from the positive experiences in my life. I've suffered many things, but I didn't learn a whole lot from them. We rationalize, or tell ourselves that we suffer 'for a reason' and creating this reason of 'learning' is simply a way of trying to justify the pain.
Nice try, but try to minimize your painful learning by suffering, and maximize your pleasant learning by positive experiences.
2006-09-04 03:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this can be true but there are also learning experiences that can give great Joy these you will never forget or how they made you feel and they will draw you in to want to know more and more the joy of the Lord is yours for the asking God has so much wisdom to share his love for us is never ending
2006-09-04 03:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by jamnjims 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so true. But, sometimes we forget it's a learning experience and take it for what it is...pain.
2006-09-04 03:03:02 · answer #9 · answered by Bub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect this is an oblique attempt at theodicy.
If that theory is true, maybe they should have whipped me during algebra class, and given me electric shocks for wrong answers. I'd have been a Math Whiz today.
2006-09-04 03:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by kreevich 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋