I dont believe that people are born gay can anyone explain me how ?

Question

i was a homosexual till the age of 21 i have been through the experience of being a gay.I can answer gays who boldly say they are born gay ..Its what pleasure u accept i liked sex with mens and never liked womens but a drastic change where i changed and became straight ..And the one to make me Gay was a gay unfortunately my other friend is completely gay and says cant change ..I jus believe its in ur head if ur born with 2 balls and a penis then you are a Man not gay if without balls then ur eunuch.not gay

Answer 1

We are all made in God's image and God is not gay so I just don't understand where people get off saying that people are born gay. People are gay because they chose to be not because they are born with some type of gay genes........lol. I am happy to hear that ur now straight.

Answer 2

In my opinion you were never Gay. You were experimenting for sexual gratification or for a time you felt inferior acting out the heterosexual role and escaped it by having sex with same sex partner. I am glad you finally got the courage to be who you were suppose to be from the beginning. No one can change your mind so there is no need in trying. I have heard all these conversion stories from Gay to Straight before. There are far more men that tried to live the Straight role to satisfy society and switched over to the Gay role than the other way. Since you seem to describe every thing by your sexual organs I would like to say two balls and a penis may make your gender male, but I hope that you are intelligent enough to know it does not make you a good husband and father.

Answer 3

no human being is born besides. you're not any more born instantly, lesbians are not any more born lesbian, gays are not any more born gay, and bis are not any more born bi. that is what your mom and dad, your associates, the media, and everybody else thinks is the right way of society. those type of misconseptions of "oh i'm born a genius" and that i'm born this kind and that, are all faux. except you're a baby with tousled chromosomes, you're born an same way as yet another human being. and some problems with religion... -are you able to instruct that there is a god? No you won't be able to. So do not imagine god is an end all be all. you've faith in god, for this reason you stick with what you've faith, and also you do not tell human beings to stay with what they trust. I mean, why do not we tell all Buddists to exhibit western? they don't trust interior an same god as we do. -faith also says that that is a sin to hate yet another guy for what his judgements are. That guy ought to easily call for forgiveness, it really is often used in the bible. And what makes you imagine christian is so balanced? What makes you imagine this u . s . would not enable gays? It says in the structure, "guy has the freedom of religion", nicely what if there's a faith that permits gays? What if there is. and there is such faith, that is referred to as Athiest. Athiest is a faith, too, so do not bable on about how that is not any longer, because that is a conception that there is not any god. So I were given a guideline for you. **** off, and do not tell human beings what to do. Do what you're meant to do, and allow what human beings prefer to do. existence isn't your decision, and it not in any respect will be.

Answer 4

Being "born that way" is a myth! Human's have free will (choice). They choose to be homosexual. Human sexuality starts mentally and then becomes physical. Animals, which do not have free will, are born that way. The human brain acts like a muscle in that it develops according to the way it is exercised. When we think a certain way the brain produces and dispenses chemicals/hormones into the body. A science magazine demonstrated this by comparing the brain chemistry of a musician to a non-musician which was different. The same holds true for other ways of thinking (fantasizing) about sex. Like a muscle that develops into strength or endurance type of muscles, depending on how it is worked, the brain develops in the way we think. This gets turned into a sexual act that deviants perform by thinking deviant thoughts or fantasizing.

Answer 5

There are studies that say they it all depends on your chromosome's so i think it is possible for a man to be born gay if it has an X X chromosome instead of XY...

But that could be wrong. I am just saying what I have herd..

and about growing out of it.. Well there is Base swiching and that could be aresult of that. Again I am not 100% sure but it sounds like it might be the case??

Answer 6

Just realize not every child has the same experiences as you did, and a child that thinks they are born gay may have had an Innocent or not experience that happened to them as a young child and they can not remember why they formed an attraction on same gender. Can you remember when you first formed an attraction on the opposite gender. You was not born heterosexual you learned it from memories that was influenced. So your friend has had issues that happened from early childhood and thinks he was born gay. He forgot those incidents.

Answer 7

There is enough evidence to suggest that a hormonal imbalance during pregnancy may cause some people to have an inclination to be gay. However, that is not to say that it is the reason EVERY gay person is gay. Things that happen to them as a child can influence their orientation as well, making it possible for those people to go back to hetero with the right counseling or influence.

Answer 8

I don't believe that anyone is born left-handed. Being left-handed is a lifestyle choice by peole rebelling against God. I used to be left-handed, but I force myselt to use my right hand. So I'm now a righty? Right?

Any farmer can tell you that there are animals who exhibit a homosexual inclination. If animals can be born gay, so can humans. Or, if homosexuality is not an inborn thing, then neither is heterosexuality.

You're kidding yourself.

Answer 9

I have grown up fully aware that I am romantically attracted to the same gender and with the onset of puberty am fully aware that I was sexually attracted to the same gender as well. I am gay. That is who I am. I am happy with the whole of my being. This is who I am. As a child I grew up wanting to kiss boys, hug them, hold their hands. I did not want to do this with girls. With puberty these feelings combined with sexual feelings. Again, though, no desires came about for girls. For me when I say a woman is pretty or beautiful it is the equivalent of me saying that a flower is pretty or beautiful. The same is not so with men. When I see men there are layers of beauty: from the sexual to the sensual and even spiritual for me.

Perhaps you are heterosexual....or perhaps you are bisexual that for a time leaned more towards homosexuality and now lean more towards heterosexuality.

I have never ever had sexual or romantic desires for the opposite sex.

Answer 10

As science continues its research it's likely that a genetic key will be uncovered to homosexuality. There is already evidence that homosexuality seems more prevalent in certain family lines, which supports the concpet of genetics. Additionally homosexual behavior occurs in nature.

I'm sorry - it sounds like you had some bad experiences, but trust your life is happier now.