2006-09-04 02:27:29 · 29 answers · asked by jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just split from my girl - maybe you and her can talk
2006-09-04 02:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, so I don't know what sort of things you may be into, but I reckon you want to go and do something in your spare time which will involve being social and meeting people.
You could start a band if you play anything (go to some rehearsal rooms and put ads up, or on the Internet), go to dance classes, do a sport (again just stick some ads up somewhere for other people to play with), go to the local youth club, take an evening course (learn a language, or painting etc).
I'm sure there is something you'd enjoy doing and if it involves a group of people then there will be a social aspect too.
If you are happy and open people will be social with you, then you'll meet their friends and so on.
Hope that helps, good luck and be positive! You CAN change your situation, just decide to take that first step and be encouraged by thinking about how nice it will be to make some new, good friends.
2006-09-04 09:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly ignore any of the nasty replys you get from asking this question there are some very insensitive people who come in here as I asked a smilier question not so long ago,but on a positive side there are some very good decent people who will give their support,many will be going through what you are and have been though what you are now.I know how you feel I'm also very lonely and have the self-esteem as small as a grain of sand, I don't have one single friend nor do I have a girlfriend , I feel If I have hit rock bottom,its got to a point where I am not sleeping well,not eating,and crying alot and I'm 33...but I have had a long talk with my dad and he's going to try to help me out..I feel that I have made the first step to get back on top..try talking with some one you trust, talking does help a great deal it helped me alot..I am going to look for evening class,start driving lessons, maybe a new hobby. there are people who will help and encouragement, but also you have to help yourself.
If you would like to chat with me then you can add me if you like,may be we can both give each other encouragement my details are in my 360 profile.
2006-09-04 09:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about enrolling on an evening class to meet like-minded individuals who enjoy the same kind of hobbies, or learn a new skill in an area that really interests you. Having a boyfriend isn't all there is to life. Yes, it's lovely to have someone to share things with, but be careful on your quest for love. If you go out searching for a boyfriend, men will inevitably see the desperation in your eyes and you'll either be used for what they can get because they know you'll do whatever it takes to try and keep them as a boyfriend, or they'll run a mile because your eagerness will put them off
2006-09-04 09:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by trog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey whey don't you get more socially active.. school will start soon and someone like you will befriend you. If this is not so i would suggest you to go out night clubs or beaches but this doesn't sound right if you go alone.
Why don't you start a part time job, MANY make friends with their co workers and go out with them in weekend or their free time. Or look around for social meetings of people like you, something good will come out.
Else, try chatting with people on line from your area. As you get to know each other well, meet and go some were together.
2006-09-04 09:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by Rody 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you dont care about your self. First you have to love yourself and trust in the Lord no matter how old you are before you can have someone in your life you have to get up and stand. Your are someone and when it is time to have someone as a friend or a boyfriend they will come alone you will see.Take a look at yourself and do something diffrent, like fix your hair, go buy something new and go out for i know that there is somewhere to go and remember no one is going to see you unless you take a step out so that you can be seen. Also remeber you do have a friend and that is the Lord for he knows you better than anyone so pray to him. Take care and god bless
2006-09-04 09:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Loosen up and meet people via the bar, the mall, the grocery store, the beach, something. You gotta have at least an acquaintance from work you can hang out with. You meet that person's friends and become friends with them.
2006-09-04 09:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by scorpion187us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out more and meet new people, get a job where you work with the public, if you are shy maybe chat on the internet or try the personnel web sites, stay active and remember that honestly are you really alone. You have to stay positive and keep tying to meet new people.
2006-09-04 09:31:56 · answer #8 · answered by klf26973 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop wasting time surfing the net and get out there and join a club or something where you WILL meet new friends and potentially a boyfriend.
Or get involved in a charity - likewise you'll meet people there and be doing your community a good deed.
2006-09-04 09:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Glued to the PC won't help, it can be a very anti-social thing. Get out there and meet people, make yourself go to work events etc. If you keep refusing stuff eventually people wont even ask you.
2006-09-04 09:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out make friends and get a boyfriend
2006-09-04 09:36:14 · answer #11 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋