ok we hv a long distance relationship and i really trust him, he is frustrated these days cuz of job tensions and he is an introvert, he just told me that he wants to go out with a gal there for a movie, he said he is just going out to chill, nothing more, shuld i allow him
2006-09-04 02:25:59 · 21 answers · asked by hmmm 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its a long distance relationship. ok, let's admit it. he's being honest in telling you that he wants to go out with this girl for a show.
1st scenario: you don't allow him to go out with other girls, and when you call him, he lies to you that the date is cancelled. what does it implies?
2nd scenario: you allow him to go out, he comes back and call you straight on the phone and describes what happened during the date. how would you feel?
it would depend on the level of trust you placed on him. if he betrays your trust, move on with your life.
2006-09-04 03:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by confused 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can trust him why not? Would he ok it for you to go to a movie with another guy? I think this will turn up to no good! But if you trust him let him go. atleast he told you..long distance relationships do not work out! oen of ya neeed to move....if u love each other that much!
2006-09-04 02:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by Deshawn & Keshawn's mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ALLOW?????? Hey, he is your boyfriend not your property. I guess I would be thankful that he was at least telling me about what he wanted to do and trying to get your blessings instead of going behind your back. However I would be hesitant about a long distance relationship anyways.
Good Luck.
2006-09-04 02:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your Man is nothing but faithful to you and you trust his every word sure why not if she's only a friend. Then too I would also have second thoughts about him going out with another woman but that's just me. But if you don't think that he's going out with her cause she's just a friend then maybe you shouldn't let him go.
2006-09-04 02:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by peaches 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way girl - thats like sayin yeh go and sleep with her too coz lets face it - he was gonna anyway , thats men for ya ! Tell him to get lost and find someone else ( u that is !)
2006-09-04 02:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats spells trouble. I think if you allow him, two things can come out of it...1.) He might breakup with you cause he realizes he needs to go out with more women...2.) He realizes you are meant for each other. Up to you..:)
2006-09-04 02:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
construct up ur self belief! i will say that no one is gruesome! basically lazy human beings! look interior the mirror and tell your self, u are stable sufficient for individuals! yea! and meet new human beings! dun get a boyfriend for the sake of exhibiting off. sometime u will meet ur particular one.
2016-11-24 21:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by girardot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who is this other girl? do you know her or is she just now coming into the picture? it is very possible that she is just one of his friends and he is just wanting to hang out with her. usually if he is doing something wrong behind your back he won't tell you about it. do you trust him? this ones on you.
2006-09-04 02:31:25 · answer #8 · answered by Btieti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is were trust comes in so he was honest to tell you, so let him go its a movie!!
2006-09-04 02:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cant stop him, if he wants 2 he will & jus lie 2 u, coz its along distance relationship, theres pretty much no way 2 find out if he doesnt tell him.
2006-09-04 02:38:46 · answer #10 · answered by jd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋