2006-09-04 02:24:34 · 3 answers · asked by clicker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Aww, this is a really sad question. I'm sure your husband already loves you so much - but maybe he's not showing it. Maybe he just stressed at work or having his own personal problem. Maybe the flame has just gone out & you need to reignight it. And you will because your a good wife and you care or else you wouldn't be asking this question.
Men loved well groomed women. Not always done-up in make up & big hair or anything. But a clean body, silky legs (& other areas), nice nails, & eye brows. Try just wearing light natural makeup and have a nice soft hair style. That way he can see your natural beauty (And YES you do have natural beauty).
Buy a pretty outfit to sleep in. Nothing to sexy because that way he'll know your trying really hard. Get something that shows a little leg & some cleavage and be showerd & clean (just in case he wants to have sex) before bed. I have this phermone stuff that I put on throughout the day. You can get it at most places that sell sex toys and stuff. But all it does in mimick the natural sex phermones. It's like natural perfume.
Try praising your husband for small things that he does such as "Thank you so much for working so hard to take care of me & the kids" (I use this one a lot because my husband is the only one that works) or you could try "You really are good at following direction" (it's a simple praise that will make him feel good about himself). Let small things slide such as taking out the trash, not picking his clothes up off of the floor, and beeing grumpy after a long day of work. Praise works better than negativity. You could try reading the book "How to be a positive wife" I forget who it is by, but it is really good.
Try having someone watch the kids (if you have kids) and have a night alone with your husband. Have the house spotless with candles burning through the house (Candles finish off the cleaned house very well). Serve him a romantic dinner with candles and wine. Then play a board game or watch a some-what romantic movie (Trying to get my husband to watch a romantic movies it next to imossible. Thats why I said some-what romantice). Then have a cuddly night alone in your room (or on the couch, floor, kitchen table, lol, anywhere!). In the morning have a big breakfast served for him before you go get the kids.
Always keep your house in order so you husband doesn't feel like he has to come home and do anything else. This may seem old fashioned - but men really do like it. I try to keep my house in order all the time except finals week when I am taking Finals & studying like crazy - then he takes over & I don't feel so bad because I always keep it nice & neat.
Try baking him cookies, pies, brownies, or anything as a suprise every once in a while. And who doesn't like coming home to an already set & prepared dinner table? I know I would love it!
These things sound really old fashioned, and they kind of are. But it is what men like. I know I would like it if my husband did it for me. But he doesn't so I have to do it. If you work, it can still be done. I used to do all of these things, work, go to school, and take care of our daughter. Just give them a try. When I felt our marriage going a little down hill I kicked these things up & the flame got lit again. I actually posted a somewhat similar question on here a couple weeks ago. I asked "How can I be more sexy to my husband?" and I got some pretty good answer also. I hope you get some good ones too. There are some good books on this at the library. You couls probobly find them in the self-help section. Good luck with your marriage honey - and don't give up! It will get back to normal or he'll just fall in live with you even more. Have a great day!
Cherub
**Sorry about all of the misspelled words. The spellchecker isn't working & I can't spell worht a crap anyways!**
2006-09-04 02:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by twisteddistance 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a new approach. Stop all contact with him for a little while. During this alone time, try to find ways to improve your own personal life and not focus so much on your relationship problems. Nobody said this would be easy, but you have to resist the urge to return to your old ways.
When your ex boyfriend realizes you are not chasing after him anymore, there will be a change in how he feels for you. Becoming unavailable and distant can actually work in your favor. Finally, he will be in a position where he can miss you. He wasn't able to miss you before because you were always bothering him!
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2016-04-12 23:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by Joanne 4 · 27⤊ 0⤋
Love him more. Really. It comes back like a boomerang. Do small things for him (but make sure he knows you're doing it), tell him that you love him a lot because those are really the sweetest words in the english language for one's ears. Don't forget to hug and kiss him.
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2015-02-20 21:56:54 · answer #9 · answered by Bridget 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love him more.
Appreciate him. Do things for him. Admire him. Support him. Encourage him. Don't nag, don't harp. Be lovely. Be sweet. Be kind. Be all about him.
2006-09-04 02:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by Tavita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋