I am 34 years old overweight and quite loud
2006-09-04 02:14:46 · 18 answers · asked by lattebird 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Overweight should not be an issue...loud (w/o being rude) might be ok too. Have you tried a few of the dating sites?
2006-09-04 02:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you describe yourself sounds like you're just putting yourself down. And if you put yourself down, others will do the exact same thing. You said you're overweight and quite loud. Why not say something like "I'm bubbly, loving, honest, decent, caring, full of fun, have so much to offer and am generally a pretty great gal to be around"? I'm not sure if you've ever had a boyfriend or whether you've not yet found someone who you'd like to have as your boyfriend, but whatever your situation don't put yourself down. We all have good points and not-so-good points. Concentrate on all the good things that make you a good person
2006-09-04 02:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by trog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've never had one before?
Well, you just need to be confident, enjoy lief, and smile. Everyone is attracted to a happy person. Just be yourself, get yourself out there and try to meet new people, and you will for sure have someone that likes you. Just be yourself, that's all you can do. And try to take care of yourself, too....try exercising a little bit, you know. And I don't mean that in a bad way, you just need to have some priorities. Stop thinking about what you don't have and try to make the best out of a situation. You'll be fine.
2006-09-04 02:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be quieter and enrole in a gym, lots of men at gyms and youll loose weight, feel better excercise releases endorphones (sure ive spelt that wrong) , have a higher sex drive, and you might pull. Beats sitting at home eating cheese and lard.
Good luck.
2006-09-04 02:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by John S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you start looking after yourself. Get healthy lose a bit of weight and try to calm down a bit. That way you at least stand a chance.
2006-09-04 02:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you looking, what are you looking for in a boyfriend, you have just describe your outer apperance, what else do you have to offer, some men like a bit of meat, each to there own.. I say.
2006-09-04 02:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will.Just be patient.Lots of men love big loud women.Stop looking and it will come.Dont you worry x
2006-09-04 02:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are on a diet, lose weight and quiet down abit, but i can see that you did not say your a virgin, so you must have had one long ago
2006-09-04 02:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you get off the computer.
2006-09-04 02:33:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry... it will come one day!
Stay positive and confident, love will come hunting for you :)
2006-09-04 02:20:59 · answer #10 · answered by nihao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋