Everytime we talk about sex he mentions adding another male. He says things like we'll go out and see if we can pick someone up. Or that he would like to watch. It makes me feel like he really isn't interested in me but would like to be able to have another female join in as well, i am not comfortable with this. I have told him on many occasions that i only want him but he don't seem to listen. why do men always want to add someone else to the relationship. Please help!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-04 02:06:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't think i am unattractive i am not fat or anything. he thinks i want two guys at the same time this is suppose to be for my benefit. He says i am good in bed. I know he is not gay he would of discovered that by now and we have been together for 6 years.
2006-09-04 02:28:32 · update #1
He may just be joking - seeing your negative response to adding another person, ha may just be teasing you. But if this is not the case, he may be curious what it is with another person. Not that he is not interested in you....People always what to have what they can't. Who knows - it may be interesting experience for you too. Just relax and don't think much about this. Tell him that you still haven't met a suitable third person to join you. Don't disagree completely. Let him know that you are not in total opposition, juts on the look-out for attracive boy/girl. See how he reacts. If he keeps persisting and bringing potential 'lovers' you may want to reconsider your relationship. Go with the flow and you'll know what to do.
2006-09-04 02:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he ask to have sex with another male if he wants a female? He's kinky, he wants to swing. Things aren't going to work out between you two sexualy at this time and most likely he needs to be single for a while.
Men don't want to add people to relationships. Men want to have sex with more people. We do this for the same reason you choose to have children. We have a biological drive to couple with as many people as possible. It sounds lame but we've come to terms with it there's no reason women shouldn't.
2006-09-04 02:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically this guy has threesomes on the brain. I'd say that even if you get though to him that your not down with it, he's gonna go after it with someone else. So you have two choices, you can share him (let him go do his 3-some thing with whomever) or you can just end it.
2006-09-04 02:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men don't feel that way. I think you need to get rid of this guy and find someone who is interested in having a one-on-one relationship. I hope this helps.
2006-09-04 02:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by organic gardener 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is making you that uncomfortable, you need to discontinue the realtionship before you end up doing something you'll regret later, just to satisfy him. Anytime someone tries to force you to do what they KNOW you don't want to do, that's unhealthy. You need to find a man that loves and respects you more. Good Luck!
2006-09-04 02:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 08:07:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you are not comfortable with your partners request to bring someone into your sex lives, which i am totaly against. trust your feelings and don't let this happen, it is still your body and you are the on who has to be okay with it not him. i just have to ask though, are you comfortable with your partner? seems to me he is the problem or at least has a problem with respecting you
2006-09-04 02:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by rick b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was married my wife and I had 3somes, and it was a big mistake. I think some fantacys are better off left a fantacy.
2006-09-04 02:10:53 · answer #8 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might want to rethink the relations with him, he seems to have a fetish of you having sex with someone else and either he watch or participate, so if your not into that then its time to move on
2006-09-04 02:13:39 · answer #9 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might have interests in being a cuckold, and if you don't like this idea then you better move on because he is hooked on it and cares more about his needs then yours
2006-09-04 02:14:50 · answer #10 · answered by JoeP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋