My daughter (13) sleeps in my bed.
She falls asleep in hers but wakes up in mine.
She is not scared - we don t know why she does that....help?!?
2006-09-04 01:30:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
yes.
bring down the rules. NO SLEEPING IN UR BED
if she doesn t listen beat the heck out of her
2006-09-04 01:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by LuVeLeY 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe is just her bed? lol
Well talk to her, she might not even know why either. Try sleeping with your door locked so she has to properly wake up when trying to go to your bed ( not just sleep walk there)and think about it. So you both can really see why she's doing it
When I was a child, my dad was travelling all the time ( navy) so my mom and I were alone, and just slept in the same room, because we both felt too lonely without my dad there. When he came back home, it was always a struggle for me ( and them) to get used to sleep on my own, I just went to my mom's bed because it was a habit and I didn't see my bed as my place to sleep ( I was 6) So my mom, after talking a lot and a lot, locked her door so I had to wake up, think, and go back to my bed and we also had a deal, If I slept on my bed for a month ( it only takes 3 weeks to make a habit) I 'd get a new Little Mermaid doll (1989 the movie had just came out then) And I got it : )
2006-09-04 01:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by Amy G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her doctor about the problem and maybe put a sleeping bag in your room. So that if she wants to come in there with you she has to sleep in it not in your bed. I mean she is going to be going to high school pretty soon and you need to take care of this now. The most important thing is talk to her doctor and they might do a sleep test to find out what the problem is.
2006-09-04 01:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with her there's something wrong with you. You need to find out when in the middle of the night she is getting into your bed and then wake her up if she's sleep walking and then tell her to stay in her bed. If she knows she's going in your bed threaten her that if she doesn't stop you'll tell all her friends that she still has to sleep with her mommy.
2006-09-04 06:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13 its time to wake up and send her back to he rown bed,maybe a past happening has made her this way,but shes a bit old to be sleeping in your bed,
2006-09-04 01:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 07:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry ! My daughter does the same sometimes and shes 11. I think its just because they feel extra safe next to you and loves knowing shes secure! My daughter always says` well its not fair i have to sleep on my own and your with dad - so why cant i come in with u ? ! Doesnt happen all the time - i think its if they have seen summat on the tv and they dont wanna own up to being scared !
2006-09-04 01:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think this has something to do with you . maybe you got her used as an infant to sleep in you room , maybe in her crib but in your room and then as she grew older she kept sleeping in your room and your bed. i think you need to assure her that you are not going anywhere. and that you will alswys be with her no matter what. if you put her to bed , read her a story and stay in bed with her till she falls asleep , things might turn around. also if she comes crawling in your bed , wake her up and tell her to sleep her room , i think you need to tell her that . in any case , i guess you need to ask child psychologist about this
2006-09-04 01:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by interested 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right , that is much too old to be in your bed, have you aked her why? if she just likes it you need to makesure you explain to her that it is not a good thing now she is 13. have you tried decorating her room or something so she is excited to be in her room? i hope you do sort this out as you dont want it to get worse. does she have sleepovers? wondering if that ould make her stay in on her own with her friends xxx
2006-09-04 01:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by shai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you asked her, my friends little brother used to sleep in bed with his mum, and I found it creepy, but he stopped when he was 14. but I think it was because he was told to. if you don't want her doing it just tell her, she is a bit big to do it now, and ask her why she thinks it is fine to do it. it will be more of a habit if she wakes up in the middle of the night,
2006-09-04 01:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by orangebutterfly82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have a talk with her. She might not think she is scared, but subconsciously she might be if she is thinking about something.
Does she remember moving in the middle of the night and coming to your bed...or do you think she is sleep walking and doesn't remember?
Good Luck.
2006-09-04 01:33:37 · answer #11 · answered by Dina1971 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋