I want to stay in picture with this girl i like at uni.
She has a boyfriend so im staying back at the moment, but i want her to still know i like her when she breaks up with him.
I used to be all over her, as in if i saw her id run and say hi, and look in her direction, sms, and a lot of other stuff.
I dont want to get stuck in friend zone, so going to really dum it down, only say hi everynow and then, and never look at her or look to see where she is. Ive been attracted to her for 7 months, other girls have come and gone (ie ive been interested in), but i still think about her the most.
I did notice in todays class she was looking at me a lot, and im proud that i never turned to catch eye.
How can i show her i really like her, without becoming a friend, and without ignoring her or looking desperate.????
2006-09-04 01:20:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
right now u r doin good. u got her attention but wat u need is to keep that attention. if she breaks up with her dude, u must becarful ok, u might get used as a rebound. dont ignore her too much either make her know u have a life outside of her. hook line and sinker..use that aproach..but ur doin good so far. talk to her with confidense have her ask u out. do not ask her out. talk to her only wen she talks to u but dont ignore her either.
2006-09-04 01:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by ben c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as she doesn't have a ring on her finger and she is not married,start approaching her and talking to her.
Ignoring her will seem just to weird to her,approach her after class,bookstore,cafeteria or whatever and get a rap going with her.
If anything at least you might end up friends with her,or maybe she has friends you can hook up with. I am sure she probably has some hot friends also.
That will get her attention if you go out with one of her friends .
Try that approach .
Any woman that is not married is fair game,until she says I do and signs her name to a piece of paper in front of witnesses ..go for it dude !
I know you said you don't want to end up in the "friend" zone,but right now that is better than nothing which is exactly what you have right now .
It could be that after you talk to her a little while,she may not be at all what you imagine her to be . If you approach her and get a rap going,that might attract attention from some other propective hottie .
Good luck !
2006-09-04 02:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's got a man so put yourself in his shoes. Would you want some other dude making plans on her while your with her? And if she gives you any play would you really want to get with her? Odds are she would do the same to you if you do end up getting with her.
2006-09-04 01:29:58 · answer #3 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if u show ur love to her and IF she breaks up with her bf that means she can do the same to u like break up with u to get with some1 else! better not try to make her break up with any1!
2006-09-04 01:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by Angel to da rescue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful sounds like your in the stalking zone, if she is not interested!!!
2006-09-04 01:25:56 · answer #5 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude
If i may?
Reality says tell her how you feel.......
life is time and place
rigth time
rigth place
Tell her how you feel.......and move on
2006-09-04 01:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by beantown10955 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋