ok so im 17 and still a virgin its not like i dont want to do it but i guess im waiting for the right guy to lose it on. am i asking for a lot?
2006-09-04 01:20:24 · 18 answers · asked by Angel to da rescue 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are wise to wait for the right guy. You don't want to regret it later. It's really not that big of deal whether you're a virgin or not, so don't do anything if you have even the smallest amount of doubt.
2006-09-04 01:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by Eric H 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes and no. Although I commend you for waiting for someone worth the effort ( I waited until I was 19 but had passed up 3 different occasions where I could have ). Just don't set yourself up for this earth-shattering, life-altering experience when it does happen. Having said that, I was glad I gave it to my best friend in High School. With the history we shared and the knowladge we had of one another..the closeness of our friendship really made it a wonderful and gentle experience that I still look upon fondly today as I type.
2006-09-04 08:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just find someone you like and if the feeling is right go for it. Threre really is not a "right one" you just have to find someone you like. Let's say you find this "right one" and you have sex with him. Then six months or a year later it doesn't work out and you break up. What was the point of waiting? You can't predict the future so just do the best you can.
2006-09-04 08:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No of course not! I am just like you, 18 years old mature dependent. I am just waiting for the right guy to come around. I don't want to have a reputation of sleeping with every guy I talk to. Honestly hun don't worry high school is supposed to be about having fun with your friends not attempting to have a baby! Tune out everyone who says anything about this and shake it off and get back to having fun. It's not cool to be a high school mom!
2006-09-04 08:26:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not asking for alot. Don't do it until you are totally sure about it. That way there will be no regrets. When I was a teenager my friends did it with anyone it seemed just to get it out the way & they nearly all regret it now. I waited until I met the right guy - we aren't together now but I wouldn't change my first time at all. Good for you.
2006-09-04 08:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by Cori 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you're still virgin right now. Wait for the right guy for you. If you think he's the right guy, that's the right time give your wholeself to him.
2006-09-04 08:27:30 · answer #6 · answered by Rita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there it does not rot away with age, wait for the right guy, you have lot's of time and many to choose from, you sound like a very intelligent girl!
2006-09-04 08:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by Michael 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its not weird cause im a virgin 2 and im just 15 and i wanna stay virgin till marrige
and its not weird 2 wait 4 the right guy im waitin 2
and thanks 4 the 2 points!!!
2006-09-04 08:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by yasmeen q* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not asking a lot go with your gutd and being a virgin is not a big deal unless your 40. kidding/ but relax your a virgin you are next time you wake up and your not.
2006-09-04 08:29:00 · answer #9 · answered by kuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i dont think you are weird. Losing your virginity should be special with some one special.
2006-09-04 08:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋