Guys...when you tell your girlfriend that you love her...what you really mean? Also, if you hint sometimes to the future and growing together...what is going on in your mind?
**Please if you can answer both....thanks :)
2006-09-04 00:55:53 · 14 answers · asked by prodigy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm.. I just say "I love you" if I really do love somebody. I think the word "love" is being very misused nowadays, and it makes me sad. And it makes people question themselves if love really exists. And it hurts many people...
For me, when I say "I love you," I mean "I really care about you a lot, and I want to be by your side when you're happy, when you're down; when you're healthy, when you're sick: anytime, and always. And I'll be there for you when you need me, because I love every single second I spend with you; because you give me a reason to wake up in a gray morning and face a rainy day with a big smile upon my face."
About the future, I think about marriage; having kids, raising them, taking them to school, etc. having a nice house, a nice job... in short, sharing a whole life together...
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2006-09-04 01:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by Syaoran 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its is often difficult for a man to express his feelings in words, and so when a man does say the word love and speak about a future, then it does mean something true and real. It means that in that moment, he has the feelings that go along with the meaning of the word love, and is able and secure enough to express it. It means he is pretty certain you are the one for him.
2006-09-04 08:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by Orditz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My feelings on Love have changed over the course of 3 marriages and divorces. I have loved them all but have come to believe that if you truly love someone you give EVERYTHING of yourself willingly to that person. Even if all they do is take from you. Love is nothing more than caring enough about someone that you would give all...... including your life if need be, and doing it willingly and without a second thought. I Love all my ex wives in one way or another but where we are not together any longer I am not in love with them. If you truly love someone they will know it by your actions....
2006-09-04 08:06:20 · answer #3 · answered by badddddad 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just telling love you is just love you, hinting of future: definetely thinking of marriage
2006-09-04 07:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by bash 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it`s hard to define "love "but i`ll try to explain what it means to me...(apart of "sexual intercorse)
i think love is about sharing emotions with close pople...i can`t enjoy everything alone, not even the most egocentric person can say that... and all thouse hard times when you think it`s over...can pass so mutch easyer when you share yourself with someone...
After you`ve found that someone ... it`s normal to feel like whanting to spend your life with them. I, for one, think the key stands in communication, that sharing of a "state of heart".Learning to communicate with eachother gives us the chance to "grow together",not apart.
2006-09-04 08:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by Alex M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEN I TELL MY WIFE THAT I LOVE HER IT MEANS THAT I AM COMFORTABLE AND REALY HAPPY WITH OUR RELATIONSHIP. We both have dreams for the future and if just half of them come true we will be the happiest couple alive.
2006-09-04 08:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, Poster 22 does not like love!
2006-09-04 07:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eternal pleasure.
2006-09-04 07:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by pretty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It means be ready for next step and that is sex again & again.
2006-09-04 08:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by Genius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I tell my gf that I love her I mean that I would do anything for her. (Even die for her)
2006-09-04 07:58:28 · answer #10 · answered by Ice Raven 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋