my girlfriend is aggresive and when it comes to oral sex she prefferes to gag it rather than suck,i sometimes feel uncomfortable when it sounds like she chokes although it turns her on,should i let her be ladies?
2006-09-04 00:47:35 · 31 answers · asked by Sam K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
remember a women is only truley happy hen she gets what she wants. On the other hand are you sure she really likes it that way ? The most important part of any relationship is communication. Talk about it! shoe her you care! Maybe she thinks you really like it that way and is only doing it to please you! If she is game after that . o wild and enjoy?
2006-09-04 00:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by soo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I haven't talked to any women that enjoy the gagging thing. By the same token, most men love it. If it bothers you, maybe she isn't sexually compatible with you. I myself think its..icky. Saw a video once where two girls were doing that to one guy, taking turns, and pausing when the gagged so much they vomited on each other. Very nasty.
She probably has submissive tendencies, and like I said, if YOU don't like it, you might want to get her to stop.
2006-09-04 00:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by jobie023 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-04 00:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is content with being turned on this way just sit back and enjoy. Tell her not to go down so far and she should not gag as much.
2006-09-04 00:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by d b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she likes it then there is no problem .. however if you dont .. then there is a problem ..
Basically in a relationship if only one side is happy it makes the other side unhappy and that goes round in a circle until ALL are unhappy.
Talk to her .. explain how you feel .. it may be if you understand that she REALLY likes it .. you come to like it too .. either way both sides must be considered.
2006-09-04 01:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's unlikely she prefers to gag, rather she is thinking that you prefer her to gag. Just tell her that you don't prefer that and she will gladly stop it. And, since it seems you two haven't communicated about your likes/dislikes and needs, you should take the opportunity to ask her if there's anything else that she would prefer you did differently.
2006-09-04 01:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MMM u must be big for her to gag lol no really...ummm lol she must not be to experience in doing that...give hr time and help her out if she is doing it wrong...the only good teacher is the one recieving so let her know and show her
2006-09-04 00:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by liltexas36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are supposed to satisfy both parties involved - if what she does turns her on but not you then you have to tell her. Things won't change unless you say something.
2006-09-04 01:13:46 · answer #8 · answered by hollysjuicypatootie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone unless there is real danger of her swalloing the entire thing compleately.
2006-09-04 00:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by bash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first check that she likes it really or she is doing gag by assuming u may like..
if she really does as her like than leave it and go as it is
2006-09-04 00:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by Ganesh s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋