i watch movies instead of preparing for upsc ,i know ican do it but i cant focus,my family life(marrige) is ruined due to each others high expectations .i a'm in a mess.
2006-09-04 00:41:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
first make a firm decision that u have to prepare for ur upsc,then do pyramid meditation for time equal to ur age(just close ur eyes and sit in any yoga posture ur comfortable and concentrate on ur breath).this will help u to develop good concentration.
good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-04 23:47:36 · answer #1 · answered by ssss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously your heart is not into UPSC, so listen to it, why waste your life living on someone else's dreams, it is too short for that.
Rather use it to live out your own.
I believe it is time to ask yourself - What are my dreams for myself? And follow exactly what your heart tell you to do, no matter how bizarre it might sound now to you and no matter how disappoint your wife might get, in the long run you both will be happier as you would have allowed each other space to grow and flourish and love to return.
2006-09-04 14:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by Abhishek Joshi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are the person in charge of yourself. Don't listen to the messages from other people, they expect you to behave and do what they want. Some people do things slower and a different way, it isn't wrong, but you do need to get out and do more. Instead of watching a movie take a walk around the block a few times. It will help. I know from experience.
2006-09-04 07:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by bcringler 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I seriously don't mean to be rude but do you have some sort of problem, it could be something like add (adhd or whatever it's called)
Attention problems basically. Either that or some kind of learning problem or mental problem. You said you're in a mess (whatever that means) and dude your question does not make sense.
Apostrophies in the middle of "am" and spelling mistakes etc..
The only reason i'm pointing that out is to show you how I came to my conclusion. Hope things get better
2006-09-04 07:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by Fluffy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u already know your weak point so u can try to wean yourself from that. also u could ask your partner for assistance. try meditation early in the morning that might help u focus. also start your preparation for the upsc exams in the morning when the mind is fresh & able to grasp easier. its just a mind over matter issue, u should be able to overcome this hurdle for sure. all the best!
2006-09-04 07:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You will have success when you are ready for it..when you have to keep up with everyone elses standards...I have found it to be a real turnoff...maybe they think they are helping..but instead, I find i rebel harder..I guess i think I should have been loved for me, not what I can do or did not do..but i forgive them. and go at my own pace. If they are basing your whole life on what you accomplish...then maybe things weren't right to begin with. How shallow of them. sorry, not to judge them..do your best.
2006-09-04 07:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i dont know but wish u all the very best
2006-09-05 06:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
concentrate on yoga
2006-09-04 07:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by Dr.Pandey Rajeshwari 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋