I think my girlfriend is stressing me out...i cant understand why...she doesnt do anything wrong...its what she doesnt do...am i being silly...i think i need more commitment and feel i dont get it...but i dont wanna leave her coz i love her alot...this stops me from concentrating on my work...on my whole day...in fact i feel like punching something...anything...could i possibly lose the plot feeling like this...am i goin too deep for answers...
2006-09-04 00:22:06 · 18 answers · asked by Pat 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You had better get used to it, it will not get any better. If you care for her just put up with it. What she does is just part of her being her, something must have caused you to like this woman more than others. What I did was moved into the travel trailer and leave her in the house. Punching something will only end you in jail and in anger management classes. Put up with her or move on to the next one.
2006-09-04 00:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT sounds to me that she is not the problem but you you have obviously got a lot of problems at the moment t that is probably why you are stressed out.
Anyway what i can recommend for you is may be relaxation methods and therapies first of all have you ever considered yoga meditation therapeutic massage candles relaxing music changing your diet as your diet might be something to do with it getting plenty of sleep counselling . exercise going for walks
or taking up a hobby or a sporitng activity or going shopping. There are lots of things you can do to help with stress . do you smoke drink loads of alcohol coffee these might be the problem as this can cause stress as well.
anyway good luck and try to follow some of the methods and therapies Ive given you in this reply
2006-09-04 00:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are putting too many demands on yourself. Be like the rock in the stream ...let the water flow past . Just observe and wait, just enjoy everything that you do enjoy and forget the rest. You cannot force anything. You cannot be inside her brain either. You are probably hoping for something to happen which is too soon for her to come to terms with. Have you discussed it with her? If not ,DO SO NOW.
2006-09-04 00:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best you can do is talk to her and see how she really feels about you. Be more positive and you might be surprised at her response. If it isn't what you want to hear at least you'll know one way or the other and you can get on with life without getting stressed over this relationship.
2006-09-04 04:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by dirty den 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are very insecure with yourself. You cannot back someone into a corner and demand they feel the way YOU want them to!
Remember the only time you can change another person is when they are still in diapers!!
2006-09-04 00:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by shortfrog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm i've felt stressed from relationships and it just being in my head... but sounds like your having the opposite problem
i got stressed because i always felt like i had no time for myself like i had no time to sleep, it wasn't true but i felt this way so when i was by myself i was thinking about stupid stuff and driving myself insane...
got over it but was a battle... and my mind is a strong opponent for me lol
2006-09-04 00:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by Ba S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would it help if i told you that you are not alone? my mate feels the same way too, that's why i am here in his place right now with sum other mates. ye i understand where you're coming from, and nah that ain't silly. i guess you need to talk about the situation with your partner. heck i reckon i need to sign out now to support me mate. chill out dude, go out with your mates, and talk to your girl afterwards. goodluck.
2006-09-04 00:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by jose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obsessive, posessive. Maybe the reason she isn't comfortable with more commitment is those very unattractive qualities you just mentioned.
2006-09-04 00:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by MonsterMash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a weekend away from work, your house and her.
Then go back and talk to her.
No improvement, then move on.
2006-09-04 00:23:28 · answer #9 · answered by Felidae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're afraid to be alone or your trophy girlfriend isn't really cutting it and your disappointment has led to stress.
Don't be with someone who only wants things and services FROM you.
Be with someone who wants things FOR you and wants to do FOR you.
2006-09-04 00:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by Peach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋