me and my fiancee are supposed to get married, evrythign was planned from the dates to the dress to the guest, but no formal invitations yet. he is a seaman and our plan that after his voyage we will settle but , the worst came, he married for another gir; in another country w/c he calls a 'forced marriage'........maybe he 's not my 'adam' and i am not his 'eve' ......any comments ar welcome........ thanks in advance...
2006-09-04 00:14:51 · 12 answers · asked by candee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I'm deeply sorry that you are going through this.. You are correct that he isn't your "adam" and you will find the right one.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-04 00:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wasn't "forced" and you know it. Sorry hon, it really sucks that it worked out this way for you. But you got the best end of the deal, you don't have to go through life with a cheating liar of a husband. Sell the dress, dust yourself off, pick yourself up and when you are ready get yourself out there and find a real man. Good luck to you!
2006-09-05 00:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't do what he did if you are committed to someone, it's better you found out now than after you made the mistake of marrying him.
And, Eve ate the apple first because that's how a guy wrote the story.
2006-09-04 07:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like he cheated on you, got her pregnant, and had to get married.
I'm sorry that it happened, but you're better now! Think of when you had 2 kids, one on the way, and you found out that he was cheating on you. Think of how terrible that would be.
At least you found at now. As terrible as it was and as horrible as you must feel, there is hope. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and there's no shame in being engaged twice. You're going to find your Romeo and be his blushing Juliet.
2006-09-04 12:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
!st of all I wanna Congratulate you,, Coz God has Saved from such an UN-DEPENDABLE person,, even bofore your Marriage,,So definitely You will Have a Nice Loving Person in your Life,, Who will understand you well,, and give you the REAL Love to you,,, so dont worry but Instead be happy,,,
am sorry if Hurted you,, but this is the Ground Reality,,
regards
2006-09-04 07:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by joy_joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear that.its better you found out know .then years from now.I wilsh you the best on finding a new perosn to be you're adam.May you're days get better as you move on.Best of luck in all you do.
2006-09-04 09:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like commitment was not strong. you are better off in the long run. and remember, eve ate the apple first-lol.
2006-09-04 07:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG...that is soooooo heartbreaking! ooohhh I'm so sorry honey! My thoughts and heart goes out to you with comforting arms. Oh...makes me want to cry!! Sooo sad. :(
2006-09-04 07:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over. No "maybe" about it. Move on and find someone who will treat you right. Good luck!
2006-09-04 07:22:50 · answer #9 · answered by Myrna B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fiance royally sucks!
2006-09-07 16:11:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋