i think i have started a relationship in the office, not with my colleague but with my inferior, if i may say...
Is it okay or big NO?? how should i say if my colleagues asking and is it better to do backstreet or let everyone knows??
Help.. and thanks..
2006-09-03 23:06:02 · 13 answers · asked by dayBYday 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wouldn't say that relationships in the office are bad but with an inferior?have you ever thought that he might exploit you in some way?it would be okay if it happened with someone in the same level with you.however, you should wait and see how it is going and then take your decisions. but please do not let everyone know and of course do not ask your boyfriend to keep it secret.probably he will tell everyone that he is f**** his superior.sorry but this is true.... and do not think that he is different than the others.just keep your eyes opened.
2006-09-03 23:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by rovina g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to tell you that having a relationship at work is just asking for trouble. Didn't anyone ever tell you this before? Did you miss that meeting that talked about this sort of thing and especially with someone who you have some authority over or vice versa.
With the sermon out of the way, I can tell you that even though we are told it is wrong, it is often difficult because we see these people every day and it is often difficult to just ignore the feelings of closeness that one often gets when working closely together, sharing the ups and down, successes and failures of our job. From my own experience recently, it is taking everything I can do in order to just remain professional and "friends" with my pretty co-worker who seems to open to the idea of being more then just friends. I have to do this because if I let it go further, it could end bad for us and the stakeholders in our organization could be hurt or upset.
One final word... rumors will get you no matter what you do or where you work.
2006-09-03 23:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by Roger S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on company policy....it may cost you your job. And if it doesn't work.....will he sue the company for sexual harassment. Girls do it all the time and if you are in a position of power over him, strong likelihood he will win. And how will your boss react to that?
It's hard enough for women to get respect in the workplace....how will your co workers and supervisors react and what will they think of you?
What happens if it doesn't work out? Will the two of you be able to work together afterwards?? Will co workers pick sides? Will that cause tension....will it distract from work getting done. Will people, including you and him get fired?
And lets say everything is great....do your really want to see him all day at work then all evening and all night. that's gonna get old really quick.
I never "fish off the company pier". Work and dating should be kept seperate. It's not worth the headache.
Food for thought....
2006-09-03 23:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Tony 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 09:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! because you WILL get fired if they ever found out.
They want your mind on your JOB not in your coworkers pants.
Sex in the business world is frowned upon. I know a few people who got fired for inappropriate questions/flirting on the job.
2006-09-03 23:14:39 · answer #5 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, low profile, definately. Just in case. Any relationship may not work out. Have fun though, and IM me if it doesn't work.:-)
2006-09-03 23:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by Tall Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well are you guys married. If you are, then you know what the answer is, If your not...is it worth losing you jobs over? I mean if this is just sex, then maybe you shouldnt pursue it. But if its more than that. just keep a low profile. God Bless. :)
2006-09-03 23:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are married, that's a big no-no...
it doesnt look right if they found out you have a relationship with your boss or someone inferior...
well, tough luck to you...
2006-09-03 23:16:45 · answer #8 · answered by matt B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u dont need to tell everybody its not there bussiness...let them think about it...if u both happy them go on...dont care other people.
as long as ur not both married
2006-09-03 23:15:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just enjoy the tyme and dont get caught
2006-09-03 23:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by Snifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋