... why do guys presume im a lesbian?some guys have asked me if im a virgin and i would say yes . then they ask how old am i again and i say 15. then they ask if im a lesbian. i believe in abstinence . why is it so hard for some guys to believe this.
2006-09-03 22:59:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's purely logic. They want sex with you. So if they ask you and you say no, they move to the next level. They say you either have sex with me or your a lesbian. It's a lose lose situation (in your mind) they figure for you, hoping you will choose sex. You simply have to retaliate at that higher level and say your straight, but their not good enough for you . That will hurt them. Trust me. Though abstinence might be the real reason, it doesn't hurt them like anything nice and personal like "your so ugly, only your mom could ever love you"
You get the picture anyway.
Not that i like being mean, but when they a nasty to you, fight nasty back.
2006-09-03 23:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by tzeentchau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very normal to be a virgin really until you get married, but this world we live in is highly promiscuous. Forget those guys and stick to your morals. Guys are sneaky they want that flower and will say anything to get it. They figure let me call her a lesbian and maybe she'll prove she's not by giving me some. If you're not why sweat it--if you are still why sweat it. Morals and values take discipline and guts. I've been celibate for 10 years and I'm not a lesbian I made a choice and stuck to it you do the same.
2006-09-03 23:15:35 · answer #2 · answered by hot ice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 15!!! Thats insane... I dont think there should be any rush for you to lose your virginity at all, especially under the age of 18.
Even if you were a lesbian, why would this have anything to do with you being a virgin... Lesbians have sex too.
Some people are serious idiots... dont worry bout em.
2006-09-03 23:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, how do you know they aren't lying and they are just saying they are virgins. Its a fact that most guys actually lie that they aren't virgins. Its easier for girls though to admit to be virgins. Plus you aren't even old enough to have sex, think about the consequencesm, do you reallly want the possibility of a teenage abortion or pregnancy or sexually transmitted dieases. You should wait til you are older, ready, with someone you truly love and have protection.
2006-09-03 23:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by Ocean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls your age should still be virgins, and I think many are, but they lie about it because of the pressure from peers. Those guys that ask you that, are assholes, they shouldn't be so rude as to ask in the first place, and then to ask you if you are lesbian because you are a virgin. They are stupid, don't place any value on what they think.
2006-09-03 23:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal to be a virgin at 15!
2006-09-03 23:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by ................................ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask them how old they are!! are they virgins or are they gay!! don't you know boys are immature! and another thing you should politely tell them that if they were the last living male on earth that you would not touch them with a ten foot pole!! honestly what little idiots they are!! you should be very proud of yourself!! at least you think like a grown up unlike them!!
2006-09-03 23:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by pricebazoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
son't listen too them geez you're only 15! If you weren't a virgin then they'd be calling you a whore. Any guy you're not intrested in for the rest of your life is going to use that lame line!
2006-09-03 23:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by double v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys are a**holes. They think with the head between their legs and not the one on their shoulders.
Good for you. Stick to what you believe in, you'll be better off in the long run!
2006-09-03 23:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by reena_ree86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i lost my virginity and i ahve regretted it ever since! it didn't feel right because i was pressured into it by my pushy bf at the time! i would wait until you feel it is time or until you feel comfortable with the person you are with! The most important thing to do is to save it for that special someone
2006-09-03 23:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by qwerty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋