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1. what is sex for u?
2. how u view sex, evil or good?
3. what the diffrence between having sex to making love?
tickle ur mind while scrumpling for a witty answer,... he he he :)
2006-09-03 22:53:55 · 14 answers · asked by candee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Sex can be any number of things. It can be a purely physical, enjoyable way to pass some time, or it can be a deep spiritual connection where time has no meaning. It's one of those things that can be taken as lightly or as deep as is so desired. Personally, the mood dictates which incarnation will show up.
2. Sex is neither good or evil. It just is. You wouldn't ask if walking or sitting is good or evil, would you? At the heart of it, sex is a physical act that's not much different from anything else (despite the potential it holds to reach to so many different mental levels.....then again, a good comfy chair can have the same effect).
3. Anyone can have sex (well....), but not everyone can make love. For starters, I would say that a requirement of making love is to actually be *in love* with whomever is on the other end. Having sex is pretty straight-up, the old in-out-in-out, while making love has so many more connotations behind it. Having sex fulfills on a physical level (if you're lucky), while making love does the same while, at the same time, providing a spiritual fulfillment that's almost impossible to replicate. And on a purely technical standpoint, having sex is usually a lot quicker, can be a lot raunchier, and be more focused on having fun, whereas making love is drawn out and has a sense of purity and innocence to it.
Not terribly witty, but those are my thoughts, nonetheless...:)
2006-09-03 23:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by salihe66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this question is a troll, but I will answer anyway.
Sex, for me is a physical act with a woman with some very heavy emotional overtones. Only women have the right parts to fit with my parts. I am a straight guy, 58, and in my adult life have been with several women. I loved them all for the time I was in a relationship with each and every one of them.
Is love necessary? No, not for some people, but it was for me. I had to be in love with a woman to some extent before I would have sleep with them. A prostitute does not act or feel out of love for the john... I've not been with a prostitute and I have not discussed this with any, but I feel a prostitute disconnects from love. So, no, love is not necessary for ALL people, just some, like me.
Sex good or evil? This is realtive and relates to religion which teaches sex is a sin outside of marriage. Personally, for me sex has ALWAYS been good. I have never had a sexual encounter which was BAD. I wonder, what is BAD sex anyway?
Having sex and making love... Personally, I have always made love. I have never had sex since for me there is an emotional portion which moves the sexua;l act itself into the making love category. Simply having sex without the emotional component for me, would constitute rape of a sort. For me, having sex without a personal emotional invoolvement of both parties means one is forcing on the other, and that is what I think is rape, that one person has sex without willing consent, male or female makes no difference to me.
I admit that as a man, I COULD become aroused and force myself on a woman, but that is something I would never do.
By the way, I suspect this is a troll because only a twit or some pre-teen or teenager would use the net shorthand you use, like using a letter "u" instead of spelling out the whole word "you." Those of us who are adults would use the whole words instead of the netspeak crap... Which are you?
2006-09-03 23:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by rowlfe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving your body to someone else is the most special gift you can give someone. Being comfortable enough to let them see you without clothes, in your purest form, where fashion, class, wealth, status, none of these things exist when your naked. We're all self conscious to varying degrees. But when you trust someone enough to show your all your marks and curves, and in a way that you can't hide behind anything, to me anyway it shows how much you care about someone.
Sex can be anything to anyone. To me there's a difference between sex and sexual. Sex to me is anything really to do with the genitals. But sexual can be a massage, a delicate touch, a look, things like that.
If Dr Phil has taught us nothing else, he has taught us that you cannot separate feelings from sex. If you have been, or know anyone who has been in these so called "casual relationships", you'll know it can't work. When your with someone in that way, you can't help but feel for them.
I feel that sex is the ultimate gift you can give someone. You can reach a level of intimacy that I don't know if you can reach in any other way. It can also however, destroy friendships, families, marriages, relationships, and so much more. I think that just shows the power of it. It Can be the greatest, and the worst thing to happen in your life.
2006-09-03 23:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by Franko Unamerican 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont ever have sex coz it only happens when u dont respect each other ... i think its evil .. theres a huge diff btw "sex" and "making love"
making love is sharing ur deepest emotion with the person u love and giving that person a piece of ur self having sex is giving a piece of urself to someone who is just gonna throw it away when hes done....
2006-09-03 22:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEX is not evil, in fact it is even holy...
people only made it look disgusting and obscene...
SEX should be kept really personal...as mush as possible.
And i think parents should teach their kids about SEX (and not just speak of it as the "birds and the bees"), so the kids wouldn't be curious to you-know-what. the older generation should just keep an open mind about it.
all in all, SEX is GOOD
because without it, we wouldn't all be here!!!
get my point?
2006-09-03 23:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by killerweed_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the pleasure for both the partners.
Sex with lust is always good.
Love is the first step of sex. Love paves way for sex. Sex is the commitment of closeness and satisfaction is the achievement.
2006-09-03 23:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex for me is showing your love and passion for a person. It should be both a selfish and unslefish act.
Sex is good, but can be used evily
Sex on its own is just having a ****, making love is showing your passion and feeling about someone you care deeply for, it is both give and take.
2006-09-03 22:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jack J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is only a time pass
2006-09-03 23:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by jj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex for me is for married couples. Sex is Good because God created sex, but only for married people, It is wrong to have sex before marriage.
2006-09-03 22:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends on your value system ... to some, sex is a recreation, to others its an extension of the language of love ... depends on the individual
2006-09-03 22:57:58 · answer #10 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋