Ladies: if you truly love a man, will telling him make things better?

Question

I need some hope right now :(

Answer 1

Communciation is the better n must way in a relationship... therefore yes u shld talk to yr man as much as possible...

Answer 2

I've been in your position hunny. I was totally head over heels madly in love with a guy - we lived in the same flats so I had to see him every day - watch him bring girls home (Grrr....!! Lol!) and it was torture. For 5 whole years I said nothing. It got to the stage where I was physically sick - I idolised him. After a lot of soul searching I finally had to tell him - for my own health if nothing else. It was SO hard. Nothing happened between us but he is now one of my closest friends and I wouldn't swap that for anything. Babe, in 5 years, which will you most regret? Either not tell him and in 5 years still be single wondering what could have happened if you'd just got a little courage? Or risk maybe making a little bit of a twit of yourself? I'd rather be a twit and know once and for all. Babe - if I can tell a guy who I had to live with and see every day then you can do it too. I tell you now - you will feel SO much lighter. If he's a decent man he will not make you feel like crap over this. He most definitely will not laugh at you - it's a huge compliment and he will be flattered. I promise you that you will feel better once you do this - whatever the outcome! At least you will know hey?! Best of the bestest luck! :) you CAN do it!!!