I love someone who says he loves me, but can't find any sexual chemistry on his part. Yet, people all around us say it is definetley there. Is it possible that he can't see it/feel it because he is not aware of it or maybe he is scared of it?
2006-09-03 22:36:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm, that's a tough one. I don't think this can be a definite yes or no.
My personal experience, however, was this:
my husband says that as soon as he saw me he was attracted to me. I liked him a lot but because we got along so well and we had a lot in common and so forth, but we were only friends.
We would go out together but still only as friends. He would tell me that he wanted something more with me but I kept telling him no. We each would date other people but he never gave up.
One day I just realized that I loved him very, very much and I wanted to be with him all the time. Soon after that the relationship became physical and thankfully we turned out to be sexually compatible!
Perhaps this is what is going on with this person in your life. Just give it some time and don't push it.
I really and truly attribute the success of my relationship to the fact that we built up to it and it wasn't the main factor of our relationship like when you usually start dating someone. We were FRIENDS FIRST and let the physical develop naturally.
Good luck!
2006-09-03 22:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by mamabunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that he can't see it/feel it because he is not aware of it or maybe he is scared of it?..........r u sure those sentences?
If yes, then do you think its any worth hanging around with him.
How did you realise he doesnt have the chemistry you want. May be you are having a different chemistry than his. and if hes not aware, he would never be too.His chemistry should be working differently
I mean you cant find an equllibrium...no no let me correct it..there wont be a forward reaction..for that matter there wont be any reaction only
so much for chemistry ;)
2006-09-03 22:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by sree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sexual chemistry is very important ... in fact, I have a hard time seeing how romantic love could exist without it. I'm not sure if a guy could have sexual chemistry with you and not be aware of it, I'd be more likely to say that either he's attracted to you or he's not.
2006-09-03 22:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when two people love each other the sexual chemistry is explosive. You don't need love to have sexual chemistry, but it is definitely worth it when you love someone. The earth moves when you're together. It's like nothing else matters when you two are in the same company. It's magical!!!!!
2006-09-03 22:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People say that there is more to a relationship than sex,but I have come to realize that no one actually wants a " no hot " relationship. So, sexual chemistry is the most important tool in any relationship.
2006-09-03 22:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by Nthape 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It usually speaks for itself. Without it, there isn't much chance of the relationship progressing. It's certainly not the most important thing, but who wants to live their life with a 'friend' while being attracted to other people? That would be miserable.
2016-03-26 21:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't really matter what other people say about how he feels about you, what do you feel? It sounds like an odd situation, you've got to have a serious conversation with him about how he feels and what he wants. Do you want to remain in a relationship with someone who says he loves you, but doesn't feel sexually aroused by you?
2006-09-03 22:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people say that if u love the person everything is there already....if sexual chemistry u need to be attracted of both side...i dont think if he is scared i think he needs more forplay.....
u need to be more aggresive when it comes to bed...need to seducive,more juicy in all cycle...
if u want to stay with ur man...
2006-09-03 22:44:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is coz u need know the sexual capabilities of the other whether bother of are equally sexual active.
2006-09-03 22:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u two have the emotions but the sex desires are still not here yet.....just wait, it'll come eventually......
2006-09-03 22:40:24 · answer #10 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋