he shuts me up we dont talk often and he only calls me wen he feels like plse give advise cos i dont even know were i stand i asked him that i dont know were i stand i tell him lets break up he he never answers anything
2006-09-03 22:35:00 · 11 answers · asked by jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like there's a bit more going on here than simply getting your stuff back from him... If he isn't going to have a normal, adult relationship with you, you are probably better off leaving it, with or without your stuff. You can replace things, but having a cr@p boyfriend can stay with you forever!
2006-09-03 22:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by keys780 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me but the guy
was a grown man of 28 years old,and still
living off his momma and sister!!!
Ya',and he stole my clothes,some jewelry,
and some expensive college books,and has
not ever given them back to this day!!!!
Even his parents didn't make him though they
said they would. later I found out he suffers
from bipolar. Thats worth leaving your stuff
behind for when they won't take their meds!
Tell his family,and if that doesn't work,try the
law. If you can live without your things,then
do it,and tell everyone you know what he did
to you!!!
2006-09-03 22:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! What things are U talking about..........Make up your mind its over.....the world is so wide for U to explore and make friends don't U see there are so many boys, men around...... N about your things lets HIM keep it..... if he is a cheap skate if doesn't he will finally return it to U.
2006-09-03 23:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by Bugsy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to break up with your boyfriend you need to be very clear about it. Tell him its over and ask him when you can come and get your things.
Make sure you take a friend with you when you get your stuff.
2006-09-03 22:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by granny2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him you'll spread rumors about how little his **** is. What is he gonna do, walk around, whipping it out to everyone to try and prove you wrong?
Threaten to damage his reputation, and maybe he'll come around. Otherwise, depending on how valuable it is, you may have to bring in the law.
2006-09-03 22:39:04 · answer #5 · answered by diaz276 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it's over and demand your things back. Take a nice suitably large male friend(s) with you.
2006-09-03 22:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by nert 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretend that all is ok .. wait till he is out, get a friend to help and get all your stuff out and then dump the loser and find a guy who deserves you :)
2006-09-03 22:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
anyhow you have to butter him up and take your things back in any case. After you get your things then you teach him a lesson.
2006-09-03 22:36:44 · answer #8 · answered by yogesh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your things are yours...so take them
if he objects or makes problems go with a (male) friend or three, and "ask" nicely
2006-09-03 22:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt want to tell u then tell him its over and mean it he will come crawing back to u
2006-09-03 22:39:51 · answer #10 · answered by Snifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋