my bf has this thing about me getting drunk, he hates it when i do it! He just went to two parties over the past two nights and got drunk at both of them though!! he knows it makes me angry and everytime i say that i am gonna get drunk he gets all angry and won't talk to me for a while! i have about 3 parties to go to over the next month, should i get drunk in revenge? i haven't been drunk in ages and really want to!
2006-09-03 22:29:17 · 24 answers · asked by qwerty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hun, it's unfair for your boyfriend to tell you what to do, you shouldn't get drunk in revenge, but get drunk to let him know it's your life & you're going to live it how you want to!!
Is he concerned that you drink to much? Just have a few drinks to show him you can drink & have a good time & theres no reason for you to not drink (but don't get absolutely plastered so you're not in control). Give yourself a limit before you go out. After all you don't want to end up with a gross hangover the next day & spewy & stuff. Don't let any guy tell any guy tell you what to do. Nuh uh, don't get bossed around. Live life to the fullest, you're only young once.
2006-09-03 22:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is so pathetic to visual exhibit unit a number of those human beings talk approximately how incorrect revenge is...of direction in case you think of revenge is doing something stupid like merely slashing a tire etc, then that's not properly worth it "different than HE/SHE WORKS far off and could journey some problem changing IT etc, yet while that's something which you comprehend will convey the criminal soreness, then that's good. Who THE HELL mentioned every physique became greater appropriate THAN YOU OR EARN the perfect to harm YOU AND walk AWAY? AND PLUEEEZE, no person point out JESUS, GOD OR THE BIBLE because of the fact even the bible recommend punishment. Why go through your self suffering to recover from the harm and soreness jointly as they roam freely and chuffed?? those perpetrators in many cases have sociopathic tendency, so except they experience some style of soreness or humiliation they're going to proceed the cycle and in the event that they do no longer do it to every physique else, the question stay why you? are you under a guy or woman? that's absurd while human beings say taking revenge places a guy or woman on the comparable point because of the fact the guy who harm them..the entire an unfair act FIRST.
2016-09-30 08:03:03 · answer #2 · answered by laseter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't want you to get drunk because he worries about you drunk at parties. He doesn't want his girlfriend to get hurt. The truth is a lot less will happen to him drunk at a party than you. Just a sad fact of life. Get drunk if you want, but be prepared for the consequences. Good luck!
2006-09-03 22:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by Nena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Claire, you should get drunk because it's fun to get drunk, and not just to get back at him. If he's upset about it, that's his own problem. And if he doesn't want to talk to you for 3 days, then you can have plenty of fun at parties without him until he stops whining like a little baby.
2006-09-03 22:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To what point and purpose young missy? You'll get drunk, your bf will get mad at you and then what? Will it make things less complicated? Will it give you the feeling of satisfaction? Will it solve everything?If your answer is yes.. then do it!
2006-09-03 22:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by allaboutdepp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shows how weak you are as a person without any strong convictions. life is so beautiful you must enjoy every moment of it, why waste your time on such friendships which is not going to last for ever, as it has no particular goal to achieve. get involved yourself in healthy activities, help others who are in distress, and in whatever way you can. you have taken birth to live your life wonderfully and for others only. rather ease out other's problems by extending your friendly hand and be a good humanbeing, such dirty thoughts will never occur in your mind, as you are occupied with beautiful thoughts for others. drink only sweet nectar of god and purify yourself with his thoughts alone.
2006-09-03 22:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by shankari n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long u think ur relationship in this situation?
U knew in ur heart, revenge is not a solution.
If u react the same way he treated u, u r no different.
If things got no future, dump him and stop wasting ur time.
2006-09-03 22:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting drunk just give you a hang over, believe me i got drunk one time and my god i really said that i will never do it again.
2006-09-03 22:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by blushberry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are so small and trivial. Like ants with opposable thumbs. Damn, that really makes me yearn for a giant magnifying glass...
2006-09-03 22:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by dreth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doing things like that is only hurting your self.so instead go out and enjoy your self in other ways and dont drink them out.thats only makeing the promble worse for your self.
2006-09-03 22:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by bigmomma s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋