was told by a friend that she bled the first three times she had sex! I lost my hymen( though not to sex) in a stupid way that I regret, that was over three years back. Now I have totally abstained from masturbation and all those silly ways (not lesbianism) and my fiance believes I am a virgin even though I told him I am not.
Will I still bleed when I really am disvirgined?
any stories to back the answer up?
2006-09-03 22:16:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a friend of mine told me that she bled for the first, secong and third time she had sex.
body types however are different, could be different in your own case but you are a virgin. you are, and you oughtta be proud of yourself.
2006-09-04 11:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by baby blu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sad that you believe in the old-fashioned hymen theory. We live in the 21st century you do not need blood on the bedsheets to prove you are not 'damaged goods' to your husband who bought you and your father who sold you anymore!
The term is deflowered or losing your virgintiy not disvirgined.
You should absolutely not abstain from masturbation because not masturbating will weaken your vaginal muscles and your urethral sphincter which may result in a weak bladder.
You are a virgin. You lose your virginty when you have penetrative intercourse not by masturbation or any other means. Some girls are born without a hymen, does that make them not virgins when they are born? No of course not!
2006-09-03 23:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have never had sex then you are a virgin plain and simple.
A lot of girls lose the hymen earlier on in life these days and so it is not necessarily a 'tell tale sign'.
The key is that the first time you have sex your partner takes it really gently until it feels comfortable .. if you dont bleed and he worries simply tell him that it must have been because he was so gentle and considerate .. chances are his silly male ego will be flattered and he will forget about the other possibilities :)
Have fun !
2006-09-03 22:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There isn't a definitive answer to this. Most women, when their hymen is broken, only bleed once. They may "spot" for a day after, but it shouldn't be any more than that.
If your hymen has already been broken sometime in the past, chances are you will not bleed when you have sex with your fiance.
2006-09-03 22:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by blix_78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I didnt bleed at all. Not every one bleeds, so it doesnt mean anything if you don't. You are still a virgin if you haven't had sex yet. A lot of girls aren't even born with a hymen, so how can that mean anything. All hymens are different, so it doesn't matter if you have broken it already. I wouldn't even worry about it. And don't tell your fiance you are not a virgin unless you have had sex already.
2006-09-03 22:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by NurseKaia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you will bleed for the first time but as for every other time Ive never herd of bleeding after the first time.i mean all of my friends only bleed the first time and it wasn't very much at all but as the saying goes every1 is different.
2006-09-03 22:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by wizardalli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ,id say you will still bleed a little ,why are you lying to you boyfriend being a virgin is a great thing ,Tell him the truth he should be more than happy as he will feel very happy that you have saved your self
2006-09-03 22:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by paul2ali 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you might, it depends on how your body has adjusted... i got in a really bad car accident when i was 8 and it broke my heimen... i did not bleed the first time i had sex... but some people never do.. it's just a body thing... soem people bleed or spot just from rough sex... it just depends on your body, I wouldn't worry about it... if he loves u, he won't care either
2006-09-03 22:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by Dakota Country Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No my dear, you will not bleed the second time. My experience showed me that you bleed only once, very little and that's it.
2006-09-03 22:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This like most things with people, it depends on the individual.
2006-09-03 22:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋