we only see each other once a twice a week. how do i get closer to my guy friend without becoming needy?
p.s. i have had feelings for him for 2 years
2006-09-03 21:50:35 · 8 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try talking to him on the phone when you don't see him. Or even chat online.
If you feel its too awkward to be honest and tell you had feelings for him all this time, try bringing it up as a joke or in some indirect way and observe well what his reaction is. If that doesn't work, try to get a 3rd party like a mutual friend to do the talking.
Its always better to know the truth than dreading on it for years fearing the answer could be "no". Trust me, I learned it the hard way.
2006-09-04 05:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by kevinrtx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it seems dat u already r a good friend of dis person as u r 2geder 4 2 whole yrs.by dis time u must b aware of his likings nd dislikins, his tastes nd detastes nd so on. da job of doin accordingly seems 2 b rader easy 4 u bcoz u hav selected dis guy only after knowing much bout him.so i can safely say ur vibes do match.jst check whether he is also having da hots 4 u. but b very indirect. more if da guy has a super ego. jst allow urself to create a distance 4 a while say a month and observe how restless he bcums.if u feel he really missd u which i guess he will den jst play a little more so dat he cums up with da proposition. nd if u think dat he misd u bt is not admiting den simply giv him an impression dat e cutie is bowled over by you. dis will make him insecure nd compel him not to take you 4 granted nd *** up with a firm decision..............jst play it.all da best!
2006-09-04 05:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by dude 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel. it's such a sadness that we can only love someone in the heart but not be able to let him know. just tell him! you never know if he feels the same way too. if he doesn't, then it's fine. at least you can move on to find someone better and at least you can finally breathe! don't keep it in your heart, girl. that's really sad.
good luck and Gob bless you! i truly hope he feels the same way too. i believe he does!
2006-09-04 05:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I am in exactly the same situation! So when you know, email me coz I dont knw what to do either!
2006-09-04 05:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by buttafly_biattch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes a really good friend im sure you can be honest with him by now. read tips on relationships and more on this site
2006-09-04 04:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him and tell him how you feel. Maybe he feels the same way towards you.
2006-09-04 04:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its pretty much same as my case ..................... hahahahah...
and believe me if i like to be more than friends with her.... ur guy friend must be feeling the same way..............
anyways, someone has to start and in my case.... i m gonna say to her..... in ur case, u say to him....
BEST of LUCK!!!
2006-09-04 05:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by guy saint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
strip naked
2006-09-04 04:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by chrisp972000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋