ok, i broke up with my ex for good reasons of my own but lately i've been remembering the good times we've had and i miss him, mostly physically. And yes, i do miss talking and laughing with him too. I dreamt him twice in 2 days but i dont give any significance to dreams...its just that they made him more real and now i miss him a lot. should i go back with him even though i was the one who broke up? is this enough for me to go back with him?
2006-09-03 20:57:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes
2006-09-03 21:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by sexxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, this happened to me recently, we broke up, didn't contact each other for 3 days and in the end, he called me on the 3rd day AT THE SAME TIME i called him up as well lol.. We had very good reasons too but true love can truly overcome all boundaries (our problem is that we fight too much so we're working on it) and thats the way you should think too. The only reason you should come back to him if you know you can work the bad things out with him, perhaps try to think whether the things that disagreed with you can be worked out together with him.. It does not hold much significance if you're the one who broke up with him, it hold more significance if both of you are willing to try again. Yes, come back to him, tell him you missed him and that you just want to work things out so that you guys can be together.
If its purely in the physical sense, then I'll have to say no, don't go back to him. Relationships that only satisfies physically does not last long, so even if you were to go back to him, you'll definitely break up again because theres no mutual love bonding between the both of you. Look deep in your heart and think whether you truly love him and then take your next course of action. Good luck :)
2006-09-04 04:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by *~liYana~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not enough reason. Iv'e had many heart breaks along the way myself. I have often felt the same way as you do. You at this point really just need to follow your heart, if it truly feels as if you cannot live without him then, yeah you may want to give it another shot to be sure. It doesn't hurt to give it a few chances. All I know is that when I found my wife 6 years ago, the searching was done. There have never been any doubts what-so-ever from either one of us.
I have since given up on all those hard to get over girlfriends and have been lucky and found the right one. You know you always hear that when you find the right one, "you'll just know". You won't actually feel it as per say, but you will just know. It's more of a gut feeling than any sort of feelings from your heart. If you have these feelings than follow them...
2006-09-04 04:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by locowherto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not state the reason you broke up with him. If there's no reason at all, I think you should give him another chance, You dont dream of a person for nothing, he must mean something to you.
You go for it and this time make it work. Good luck
2006-09-04 04:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you broke up with your ex for good reasons? you may be lonely and just miss having someone. and has he tried to get you back? think about whether the good out weighs the bad, you cant change him..only yourself, if you go back he may think whyever you left was no big deal, is that how you feel now? are you willing to discuss your reasons or just say you miss him and sorry you left?if you do decide your going back make sure you do mention why you left to him and see how that goes over with him.
2006-09-04 04:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by smilingbluelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you do go back (just imagine doing so) you'll remember the annoying habits he has, the dumb questions he asks, the way he scratches his nose, the way he just sits there staring at nothing...you'll remember all the GOOD REASONS YOU LEFT HIM FOR!
If that still makes you wanna go back and tell him how sorry you are then go for it girl - give it another try, and afterwards another try, and afterwards - another - till one or the other tires of doing so.
Good luck!
2006-09-04 04:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by pimlico33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is are you lonely? Loneliness can make you miss your ex. If you find another guy who treats you right then you might not miss him. I once saw this bumper sticker and it said, "I rather be lonely than miserable." So be honest with yourself and ask yourself would you be happy and be able to put up with him if he did what he did that made you broke up with him?
2006-09-04 04:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by Believe me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Read what you wrote. You had good reasons for leaving him in the first place. If all you'er after is a physical relationship, buy a vibrator.
2006-09-04 04:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl ,you are confused.The reasons you broke up are the reasons you should look at. You do not give enough detail ,so difficult to help
2006-09-04 04:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by clutch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i broke up with my bf of 16 months and i still miss him, i dream about him. but i haven't went back to him yet. i tried talking to him but we ended up arguing w/ each other more then when we were together. just trust your heart
2006-09-04 04:04:01 · answer #10 · answered by becca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋