I live with my girlfriend and I'm just bored. Theres almost no foreplay and we only use like 2-3 positions. I personally, would like to play more before we get into it, but she keeps her legs closed until insertion. Like sex is suppose to consist of more that just plain old sex. And before some dickball posts something like she's not interested I severely doubt it because she initiate's most of it, but I guess that she just preffers to get into it. But anyway, whos bored in bed? and please include what you want and your sex
2006-09-03 20:47:17 · 8 answers · asked by Slappin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh Ya, and I have talked to her about it several times. And really nothing happens other than a little more d**k play than the usual 2 sec grasp. I have tried to see what she wants to do and she NEVER has any suggestions. (even after she read "Guide To Getting it On"). I try to create a environment in which she knows that I will not think bad of her or judge her. I want her to feel sexually free, but she is a catholic school girl and that damn chastity belt was hard enough to get off 2 years ago.
2006-09-03 21:05:38 · update #1
I wish I knew. My old lady is the nearly the same way when it comes to me. She is OK with me going down on her, but can't even be bothered to give me a measly back rub, let alone anything better. She thinks that simply having the honor of having sex with her should be reward enough... It's not.
2006-09-03 20:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not. I love trying new things. My BF told one of my friends that he loved how kinky I am. Try talking to her. Tell her what you want to do and ask her if she would like to try it too. It can't really hurt anything. When we first started having sex it was kind of boring until I took the initiative and suggested something. Now It is never boring whether we are having a quick f*ck or slow, all-night love-making. Oh and he is my first and partner so not being experienced shouldn't be an excuse.
2006-09-03 20:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello , don't blame your g/f for this , you should also take little responsibility . You must create an atmosphere , really romantic , have some dance and drink , for her some wine , spend some quality time like a newly introduced friend on date , I think you will be able to make it your way , if you go slowly but frequently your new way .
2006-09-03 21:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is totally beyond sense, because you shouldn't even be having sex if you're not married. And even if you're married, the idea is not to indulge yourself to the fullest delight, like stuffing your face like a pig.
With all due respest, the piglike condition seems to be your goal in life. Why don't you seek to get a clue, or turn on the Discovery Channel in hopes of discovering what it means to be human.
2006-09-03 20:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you are bored and you've tried talking to her about the reason you are bored and nothings changed, i would suggest moving on. sex is an important part of an intimate relationship and if she's not willing to get help with whatever her problem is and she won't listen to you, then you are wasting precious time.
2006-09-03 20:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she's just a bit shy. She's probobly uncomfortable taliking about or doing new things. Try asking her to do something that your'e interested in and then ask her what she want's to try. There MUST be something.
2006-09-03 20:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by Karissa N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am satisfied even we do it in 2-3 positions.
2006-09-03 20:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by yogesh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how is this a computer question? i think ur gf is cheating on u
2006-09-03 20:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋