How do you cope with a possessive/jealousy boyfren or girlfren..???
You love him/her but cant tolerate the possessive/jealousy nature..What you do?
2006-09-03 20:46:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
These behaviour usually stems from a feeling of insecurity over the relationship. Have you given your partner any reason to be insecure? If not, try to constantly assure your partner of your love and be patient.
If the jealousy and possessiveness continue because it is the nature of your partner, you have to be firm and insist that such behaviour stop or your relationship will have to end.
Make sure that you are serious and not give in.
2006-09-03 20:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend wasn't violent AT ALL he was just very possessive..he got jealous easlily, and it was pretty obvious but he didnt like to show it. the thing is, he was even a jealous guy with me AFTER we broke up....and it made me feel tied down to something i wasn't even in anymore.....
it can be frustrating but sometimes, it may be the way that person feels about you.
maybe they're insecure and they're afraid that they can lose you to any other guy.
that's my ex-bf as an example
he was insecure and he got jealous of my guy friends cuz i talked and laughed with them. he was insecure and the thought everyone would be better for me, than him. i had to always remind him that i chose him for a reason, and that i loved HIM, and that if i didn't i wouldn't be with him...
and i would tell him that i wouldn't change our relationship for anything....well you get the point...i had to sorta give him that confidence and help him out. that's what worked for me..that's what i did. and in the end he seemed pretty proud of himself lol
2006-09-03 20:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get rid of him now!! It only gets worse and worse. And usually ends up with him getting violent. He is already abusing you emotionally and verbally, it will be physical abuse next. You need to get rid of him. If you really do love him and stay with him, that love will grow into resentment and then hatred for him. And the longer you stay, the harder it will be to leave. And just remember, the reason he is probably suspicious of you is because he is doing something he shouldn't be doing. Men who are out running around cheating are the ones who usually are accusing their mates. Good luck to you.
2006-09-03 20:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by Vicm0322 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys don't like it while their female pal is possessive using fact they sense like they have no freedom to do the slightest issues (ex: talking/texting human beings) with out having her constantly on their backs, examining their texts, not letting him pass someplace using fact she's afraid that he will cheat and getting indignant while they refer to a distinctive lady, as an occasion. plus, from the female's point of view, she thinks that she's showing him that she loves him, that she's doing the suited element, in spite of the shown fact that it gets frightening and overwhelming for the guy so as a substitute of sticking with the female, he pushes her away, using fact like i mentioned in the previous, she's honestly stalking him 24/7 to make specific that he's not cheating on her, or that he's not mendacity to her, etc. some adult adult males finally end up breaking up with the female using fact they think of that she would not believe him and believe is almost what a relationship is in keeping with. additionally, suited me if i'm incorrect, yet possessive ladies even tend to be very jealous, and definite, i'm getting that frequently, a touch jealousy is showing which you care concerning to the guy, yet too lots jealousy heavily isn't wholesome for the relationship and what sturdy is there in a relationship while the guy constantly has to justify why he grew to become into chatting with the different lady or another issues like that. finally, boys "take it in a incorrect way" using fact they don't ask themselves a million of questions, like they don't study each and every thing and are available to the tip that the female does that using fact she loves him, suited me if i'm incorrect lower back, yet they think of: "oh, she's possessive, she's jealous so she would not believe me."
2016-10-01 07:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF LOVE HIM/HER TALK TO THE PERSON ABOUT IT BECAUSE IT WILL ONLY DESTROY YOUR RELATIONSHIP IN THE LONG RUN. I KNOW BECAUSE I WAS A POSSESSIVE JEALOUS PRICK MYSELF . MIND YOU I CAUGHT HER CHEATING ON ME BEFORE I BECAME ONE THEN IT HAPPENED SHE WOULD GO FOR A WALK IF SHE WAS GONE LONGER THAN 15 MINUTES A FIGHT WOULD BREAK OUT BETWEEN US .COMMUNACATION WORKS IF THAT FAILS GET THE HELL OUT THAT RELATIONSHIP P.D.Q.
2006-09-03 21:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by crash man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking things through.. if this continues, i sugest you guys look for a older and more mature couple to mediate between you both..
2006-09-04 03:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by Samantha T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to chill out and trust your partner...
how would you feel if your partner behave just like you do?
2006-09-03 20:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by aqilahzaiyanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new boyfriend/girlfriend or getting help
2006-09-03 20:48:23 · answer #8 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya my boy freind was and i left him last month ago......he punched my best friend Nic becoz i was gossiping and laughing wit me.i got angry............!
2006-09-03 20:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by COROLLA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y r u still with them?
2006-09-03 20:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋