Also I like to interupt him when he is watching his favorite show and when he is reading the paper. Do you think I have a big mouth or do you think I am rude? I am the type of who has always got something on my mind and I want to share it with who ever I'm with. So I just expect everybody to drop what they are doing and just listen to me. What do you think? We have been together ten years now he seems happy with me.
2006-09-03 20:31:53 · 4 answers · asked by Busy Lady 2010 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, you're not rude. You just have a bad habbit that you need to throw down. You have to teach yourself to just shush when you want to interrupt him.I went to a seminar of a neuroligists(brain specialist), He said,every time you do a bad habbit, there is a strand formed in your brain. The more you do it-the thicker the strand becomes. It is like an ellectrical cord. Sometimes you just do it without thinking and you're wondering;"what happened? i didn't want to do that, but i just did! IT is because you have a thick cord in your brain and it makes it realy easy for electical pulses to gothrough. the pulses go to your senses and that is why you act without thinking.The only way you can brake that cord is to stop it right before the bad habbit wants to happen. It actually fuses the cord. I hope this helps you.(ps. i'm telling in a way that i understand it,. I guesse ther is much more biology and science to it, than what i know.) Good luck!
2006-09-03 20:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by amanda b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a time and place for every thing. if it is YOUR time to be with him (if u dont live together) then i think it is rude for him to be on the phone unless its a really important thing, then u will just have to wait. but if u do it when he is talking business with someone then its rude on ur part. everyone should not have to drop everything they are doing and listen to u. what they are saying is just as important as what you have to say. u just ahve to learn to wait ur turn. if he has put up with it for 10 years then it must not bother him. just slow down and wait ur turn. im just like u, i always have something to say. i even talk in my sleep!!!! but when someone else has something to say i wait my turn.
2006-09-04 03:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by babyblues452 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is disrespectful to interrupt anyone who is talking. But he probably loves you for your good qualities and he probably knows that this is just the way you are and has accepted it.
2006-09-04 03:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by Miss U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women got sh!t to say...tell him to get used to it or go gay!
BTW when it comes to rhymes...I'm a Billionaire!
2006-09-04 03:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋