What are the qualities you ladies look for in friends and boyfriends. More specifically, what makes the difference for you? At what point do you decide a guy is just friend material, or if you want to take it to a different level with him? How can a guy friend show you he's interested in you without freaking you out? I k now its slew of questions, but please share some of your experiences and advice on some of these points. Thanks.
2006-09-03 20:31:24 · 8 answers · asked by valoriousblue777 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some clarifications as to why I put the last question in there: there seems to be a few Q&A in this section where people are always asking "I really like my friend but I'm afraid...yadda yadda yadda." The answerers tell them to just tell them, but they don't offer any concrete advice.
2006-09-04 05:09:01 · update #1
well, to me it's kinda hard.
usually my best guy friends, are the ones i end up liking a lot as boyfriends. it's sweet to be friends but you have to be careful that nothing changes if you decide going out with them. to me, a boyfriend SHOULD be very close to what a friend is...but just including all the physical affection and stuff like that...lol..
i dont think i answered the question...XD
2006-09-03 20:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think what makes the difference on wether or not I like a guy at a different level is if I find them attractive and we have similiar intrests. I usually can tell right when I meet a guy if I like them more than just friends. A guy can show me that he is intrested in me by just simply telling me (but I have noticed that people can usually tell if someone likes them more than a friend just by the way they look at you)!
2006-09-03 20:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by monique 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean as far as knowin if he only friend material then b/f.....i guess when ur with someone and the kiss comes into it if i dont feel it i will decide from there what i feel......or maybe if ur not physically attracted to that person u dont kiss them, barley hug them things like that, i think it just depends on the girl and what she looks for in a guy and if i guy wants to show hes interested in her u can try tellin her or givin her little things maybe like a rose something simple a letter...i hope i helped lol oh yea i know i want a cute, romantic, respectful, sweet guy i can easily talk to
2006-09-03 20:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by Theresa J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she became inebriated she became inebriated, even not, and you at the instant are not gonna prefer to hearken to this, you may desire to allow it bypass. he's your EX-BOYFRIEND. you're friends now through fact of this you have not gotten back mutually nor do you should. through fact it rather is over and you nonetheless communicate, risk is severe you ended it with him. The jealousy situation in the direction of your chum is bigoted at terrific. extremely than measuring how stable a pal she is, think of of it this form. How stable a pal are you if she might think of she has a shot at some thing significant with the guy? might desire to she might desire to bypass up what could be a great journey through fact you pick to play the "I had him first" card?
2016-11-24 20:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about chemistry... when you aren't attracted to a guy then he can be no more than a friend
2006-09-03 20:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by breeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question. i'm a guy and i'd like to hear what they have to say
2006-09-03 20:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by 21questions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ladies dont look at us dork...they droll...
2006-09-03 20:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by Lambada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they wanna ther bfs be friendly,cute,intelligent and caring.
2006-09-03 20:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by COROLLA 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋